Homeward Bound

Baby update

2011-09-16T13:09:00.001-04:00

Jillian is 4 months old! Who can believe that? I thought I’d do a little update, partly for people who have been giving me a hard time about not blogging and partly for our memories, which are slowly fading with age. ha!

At her 4 mo. doctor’s appointment on the Sept 2, Jillian was 12 lbs. 13 oz. She is 4 times the size she was at birth! She’s doing really well as far as development goes. A little behind, but considering she was 7 weeks early, she’s moving right along. The doctor took her off the high calorie formula, which is great as it was messing with her tummy.

Here are a few semi-recent pictures of the little sweetie.

end of May (4 wks. old)

July (10 wks. old)

Today (4 mos. old)

I would do just about anything to see this smile.

The girls

I picked up crocheting again (Just call me Memaw)

Date night w/ Daniel & Jillian at Sweet Frog (fro yo)

This is how she will look tomorrow at her first State game

Tummy time

Faith took family pics for us. One of my favorites.

We are pretty much settled in and in a routine with 3 kids now. Personally, I am enjoying this stage tremendously more with Jillian than with the other two. I think it’s mostly because I haven’t had to deal with the hormones and recovery of childbirth & 9 mos. of pregnancy. This is the way to do it! We are blessed beyond measure to have Jillian in our family. She has an ahh-mazing testimony already and I’m excited to see what else He will do in her life.

Sorry for the baby overload…

2011-05-27T16:08:00.001-04:00

Our baby girl came home on Monday! It is so nice not to have to drive 30 min. both ways to see her. And to all be able to see her at one time, any time of day. She’s eating well and still gaining about an ounce a day.

Here she is having her car seat test before she could leave. (If you aren’t familiar with that, she just had to sit in her seat for about 30 min., still on the monitor, to make sure she could tolerate that position. And she did great!)

Becca & Hayes made her a sign

This is the only picture I have of all of us. Huh, guess I could have cropped it or something. Oh well.

The girls in their frog pajamas.

In other kid news, Becca had her end of year art show last night.

Hers is the light brown dog in the middle.

Her art work

Hayes in the batting cage

Baseball is over except for Becca’s tournament that continues next week. It will be nice to not have commitments during the week and on weekends for a while. AND today was our last day of school! Yay for summer!!!

Update on Little Bit

2011-05-16T21:38:00.001-04:00

Jillian is trucking right along. She’s up to 3 lbs 12 oz! Consistently gaining about an ounce a day. Jilly Boo (I’ve got a million of them) is taking 3 bottles a day and will probably add another one tomorrow. The rest of the feedings are given through the tube. And she’s getting so much better at the bottle! This weekend it was taking her 40 min to take one ounce. This morning she drank it in 25 min for Daniel. And at 2p, Little Peanut gulped it down in 17 min for me! (yes, I was totally trying to beat Daniel’s record!)

Here’s a peek at her little scrawny arms and legs:

Look how big that hat is on her! And believe me, it is a really small hat. I just knew it would fit! ha! (I should have put my hand beside her so you could get some perspective on how little she is!)

So, just a little news….

2011-05-13T13:56:00.001-04:00

Introducing our newest little one:

Jillian Mae Bridges was born on 5-2-2011, weighing a whopping 3 lbs 5 oz. She joined our family on 5-7-2011. Little Jillian is now learning to eat and gain weight in the hospital so she can come home. We’re looking at a few weeks before that happens.

Today she weighed 3lbs 7.9 oz and was moved into a regular bassinet from her warming isolette. She also took 13 cc’s of formula from a bottle, which is the most she’s taken. Otherwise, she gets her food through the tube.

God has a plan for her life and He knew her before she was born. We are so blessed and excited to be given the opportunity to adopt and parent this little girl.

Please join us in praying for her growth and development. I’ll keep you posted!

A Recipe!!

2010-12-01T17:25:00.001-05:00

Here’s my SIL’s recipe for Old-Fashioned Oatmeal Pie.

2/3 cup sugar

1 stick butter, melted

2 eggs, beaten

2/3 cup dark Karo syrup

1 tsp vanilla

1 1/2 cups quick oats

refrigerated pie crust

Mix ingredients by hand in order listed, blending well after each addition. Pour into pie crust and bake for 40 min @ 325. If pie still looks “liquid” in center, cook for about 8-10 more minutes. Let cool for about an hour before cutting pie.

And hey! Look! Pictures!!

My cute little helper

The finished product!

I did put aluminum foil over the edges of the pie to keep it from burning, just in case you aren’t a frequent pie baker. That would be a lesson learned from experience.

Thankful Month–Day 29

2010-11-29T14:11:00.001-05:00

After a fun 5 day birthday/Thanksgiving celebration, I am full (in more ways than one!) of thankfulness! And links to share! In list format!

--my favorite pie

Oatmeal Pie made by my SIL, Cissy. This is all that was left of 2 pies and I got to bring it home. I'll post the recipe later, maybe tomorrow. It tastes like pecan pie, without the pecans. Oh my word. And oh my hips.

--my new boots

My kids got me these cute rain boots for my birthday. I’ve been wanting some forever and they finally got the hint. ha! And it’s supposed to rain tomorrow!

--my new purse

My friend Kristin blogged about her cute new purse the other week and I was introduced to this website. I mean, who wouldn’t love a site called Handbag Heaven? Love! So I passed on a few links to my mom for ideas for birthday presents (she asked!) and she got this purse! I didn’t realize it was quite as big as it is, but it’s growing on me.

--winning a cute necklace!

This morning I found out I won this necklace from Fun Fabulous Finds! It’s from a cute etsy shop called Bohemia Jewellery. I’m in love with all of their stuff!

So today, I’m thankful for material things and pie. All the important things. The end.

Thankful For the Birthday Girl!!

2010-11-26T12:41:00.001-05:00

Ten years ago today I became a mom. Now that little baby girl is 10! What in the world?

Becca Boo, I am so proud of you. Your sweet spirit is a blessing to our family. You’re a little cuddle bug and while I know that probably won’t be the case in a few years, a Mama can hope!

Artistic and athletic, sweet and sassy. That’s you in a nutshell.

We love you and can’t wait to see what the Lord will do in your life!

“For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you a hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11

Month of Thankfulness - Day 24

2010-11-24T13:30:00.000-05:00

Today I'm thankful for my family. We came to my parents' house last night (my 38th birthday, hello! I'm old.). We're here for a few days and then go to Daniel's parents'. Traveling for the holidays is a little bit hectic, but I wouldn't have it any other way.

We're just hanging out, playing games, talking, being lazy, and enjoying each other. And tonight Daniel and I are taking advantage of free babysitting and going out to eat for my birthday. So yay!

Happy Thanksgiving!!!

Thankful–Day 22

2010-11-22T12:57:00.001-05:00

Today I’m thankful for grace. My friend Nicki’s blog post today started me thinking about it. It’s actually about the Santa debate. And I don’t want to talk about that here, but it made me think about all the decisions we make as parents. Some seem big and some seem small. Some we make without really thinking about it and some we agonize over. This parenting thing is a tad bit overwhelming at times!

Thank you Lord that it’s not all up to me regarding how they turn out, amen?! I’m grateful for God’s love and for the grace that He gives. By its very definition it is undeserved and freely given. And it’s because of His grace that I’ve been saved! Talk about something to be thankful for!!

“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God” Ephesians 2:8

Thankful on the 19th (See? Every other day!)

2010-11-19T13:14:00.001-05:00

Today I’m thankful for what the Lord is doing in our lives. I haven’t blogged about this particular thing and I don’t really know why. Most of our IRL friends already know, so maybe this is a surprise for about 3 of you. ha!

We’re adopting! It’s been about 9 months since the Lord started working in our hearts about this, beginning with a conversation with a dear friend. We’ve chosen to adopt domestically and all of our paperwork in finished. So right now we’re just waiting and praying. You are welcome to pray with us! So excited to see what He will do!

“Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from becoming polluted by the world." James 1:27

Thankful on the 17th

2010-11-17T15:19:00.001-05:00

Apparently for a few days there I was only thankful every other day! ha!

The kids and I just had a little afternoon snack and they were excited and grateful for the unexpected surprise. Don’t you love appreciative children?

A friend of ours who rides to church with us sometimes gave the kids a coupon book for free Frosty's. So we stopped by Wendy’s after the grocery store. Yum!

So today I’m thankful for thoughtful friends, appreciative kids, and of course, chocolate ice cream!!

And here are some cuties for you!

A Month of Thankfulness–Day 16

2010-11-16T11:25:00.001-05:00

I’m thankful for a few things today. Becca has been sick for a few days and she’s feeling better today. So far only the kids have had this cold. Thankful that the adults are still well!

My mom is visiting today! Dad has a meeting in town and she came along. Right now she is doing school with Hayes.

Thankful for my sweet mama and that she lives close enough to visit for the day! We are blessed!

Thankfulness Day 14

2010-11-14T19:52:00.001-05:00

Becca and I stayed home from church today because she was feeling bad. She rarely wants to just lie around so I knew she was sick. But I really missed going to church! So today, I’m thankful for my church.

I love love love our church. It’s a multi-ethnic, multi-cultural group of believers in Jesus Christ. There are about 50 nations represented through the members and missionaries. The flags from all of those countries hang around the worship center and it is such a neat feeling to see those each week. To be reminded that church isn’t about the walls around you on a Sunday morning. We have fellow believers all over the world, worshipping in large buildings, under trees, in tents, in jungles, in freedom and in secret.

“There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to one hope when you were called; one Lord, one faith, one baptism;one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.” Ephesians 4: 4-6

(And I’m also thankful that Becca’s feeling better tonight!)

Thankfulness Day 12

2010-11-12T23:06:00.001-05:00

The kids and I had a spontaneous field trip to Discovery Place today. I love my city and am thankful for all the fun things there are to do here!

Here’s a little look at our day via iPhone pics.

Thankfulness Day 11

2010-11-11T12:02:00.001-05:00

I’m thankful for homeschooling today. I’m not the perfect mom (who is?) and I’m definitely not the perfect homeschool mom. I get frustrated and worn out. I snap at the kids, have unrealistic expectations, and doubt my abilities.

And then I have a morning like today.

Here’s what I saw when I got up this morning. (My kids are EARLY risers and their mother is not.)

Not sure about the trashcan, but they were coloring together.

And then this happened.

Kind of makes it all worth it to see them learn.

Thankfulness Month–Day 9

2010-11-09T15:10:00.001-05:00

Ok first, who can believe I’ve blogged for 9 days straight?

I’m a little shallow (and maybe a teeny bit hormonal) in my thankfulness today.

The first is one of my absolute favorite holiday treats.

It doesn’t taste quite like a St*rbucks Peppermint Mocha, but it’s the next best (and cheaper!) thing.

And these are just two of my favorite treats, period.

Come on. Dark chocolate AND caramel? What’s better than that?

Still Thankful!! Day 8

2010-11-08T21:04:00.001-05:00

Today I’m thankful for my little guy. We had a date night tonight at McDonald’s (his choice). Then we went shopping for his sister’s birthday present. He’s a pretty fun date.

I have to tell you what he did today. (Sorry for the repeat, FB friends!) We went to the gym this morning and as we pulled into the lot, I hear this from the backseat: Uh, mom? I forgot my shoes!

So I did what any mom would do. I carried him on my back into the gym and worked out! And then I posted about it on Facebook and blogged about it.

A Month of Thankfulness–Day 7

2010-11-07T21:55:00.001-05:00

Today I am thankful for my dad. He recently had a pretty serious surgery and I am so happy to report that he won’t have to have any further treatment. So now he recovers and my mom drives him around, which I know he LOVES. (Sorry mom!) heehee

I don’t know that I’m necessarily a “daddy’s girl.” I think I’m probably equally a “daddy’s girl” and a “mama’s girl.” But I love my daddy. We are pretty close and I can talk to him about anything. He’s got a fun/silly side and a serious/straight-laced side. I think I got a little of both of those. He’ll tell a joke he likes 50 times, until he’s told everyone he knows and will laugh just as hard the first time as the 50th. Usually laughing till he’s crying and can’t even get the words out. That always cracks me up.

Growing up, my dad was strict and no-nonsense, while also being loving, gentle, and fun. I always knew he loved me, even when he was upset with me or disappointed in my decisions. My dad (and my mom) led me to Christ at a young age by their actions and their lives, not just with their words. I wanted to love and serve the God they loved and served. I had no problem believing that my Heavenly Father loved me because my earthly father pointed me to Him.

Aw, I didn’t know I was going to get all sappy when I started this! So anyway, here’s my dad. (My mom will probably kill me for posting this, but it’s literally the only one I could find!)

A Month of Thankfulness

2010-11-06T22:29:00.002-04:00

Happy Saturday!!
Right now I’m thankful for a full, fun day with friends. We drove a few hours southwest to watch the NC State/Clemson football game. And although it didn’t turn out like we wanted it to, I’m so glad we went. It was a gorgeous day, not as cold as we thought it would be. The kids were well-behaved! And we got to see an old friend and his daughters and catch up a bit. On top of all that, we got to spend some long overdue quality time with Chad and Faith, who are always a blast.
So to sum up: thankful for my family, my friends, a fun day.
Not so thankful for the Wolfpack. Or that I didn’t take any pictures.
OH! And thankful for an extra hour of SLEEP!!!!!

A Month of Thankfulness – Day 5

2010-11-05T13:46:00.001-04:00

Today I’m just thankful it’s Friday. I’m not trying to wish my life away, but sometimes I find myself living for the weekends! And we haven’t even had a rough week!

I just like spending time my family. And although I’m with the kids all the time, it’s different when Daniel is here too. It’s better when the team is all together, you know?

Random pics of the kids hyped up on sugar last weekend.

Giggle-fest 2010

Have any fun plans for the weekend?

A Month of Thankfulness – Day 4

2010-11-04T09:55:00.001-04:00

Today I’m thankful for the rain outside. I love days like this when we have no plans and can just stay in our pj’s and make rice krispie treats. We might even do school. :)

I’m also thankful for my sweet husband and how hard he works for our family. I’ll also be thankful when that work brings him back in town tonight. Even one night away is too much.

Happy Thursday!!

A Month of Thankfulness – Day 3

2010-11-03T12:51:00.001-04:00

Today I am thankful for these little knuckleheads.

Even though one of them frequently has an attitude to rival her mother’s at age 16. And one of them took scissors to his hair and left a nice little bald spot on the top of his head.

See? Knuckleheads.

A Month of Thankfulness – Day 2

2010-11-02T09:55:00.001-04:00

Today I’m thankful for my sweet in-laws.

First of all, they raised a great kid. Well, actually they raised 3 great kids, but I’m partial to the middle one.

Also, they are fabulous grandparents. Our kids LOVE going to Nana Jewel and Granddaddy’s. They don’t let them go too crazy but on the other hand they spoil them like nobody’s business. Just the perfect mix.

And as in-law’s, I hit the jackpot. They treat me like a daughter and I know they love me. They give their opinion on things but also give us our space. No in-law jokes around here!

Happy birthday Jewel!!

A Month of Thankfulness – Day One

2010-11-01T08:54:00.001-04:00

Last night I stayed up WAY too late rereading my own blog. I really enjoyed seeing old pictures and videos and reading silly things I’d forgotten about. I went to bed thinking that I need to start blogging again.

This morning I read Deidre’s post about thankfulness and decided to join her! I need to focus on blessings around here and this is my favorite time of year (hello, someone has a birthday coming up!) so this is perfect!

Today I’m thankful for:

--My sweet neighbor who made my kids these:

(the back)

How precious is that? She usually gives them a special treat bag at Halloween and always makes us cookies at Christmas. But this year she went above and beyond! Becca said, “Mom! We need to make Miss B cookies AND write her a thank you note!”

--This little guy (nephew Ty)

His dad, my brother is a baseball coach, hence the uniform. He’s almost 2 and talking up a storm. I could just squeeze him!

That’s what I’m thankful for today! What about you?

Random Friday

2010-09-03T16:17:00.003-04:00

Random, random, random. I have lots of random information floating around in my head and my fingers are itching to get it out. That doesn’t happen often. Hence, the infrequency of my blogging. So let’s go with a list, shall we?
1. My husband has been out of town all week long and it is SO good to have him back. I love that man. And I just don’t feel right when he’s not around. Everything just feels…off.

2. I stuck my finger in my eye last night on accident (don’t ask) and I think I scratched it pretty good with my fingernail. It hurts like crazy! It’s too bad I don’t have some cool story about it, but I think I was just going to scratch my face and missed. ha!

3. We started kindergarten with Hayes a few weeks ago and he is doing so well. The kid is flying through his math book, doing at least 4 pages a day.

4. My little brother is engaged! He finally asked his girlfriend of 4 years (5 years?) to marry him and they are planning a June ‘11 wedding. That girl already has her dress and bridesmaid’s dresses! Mine is in my closet as we speak! It’s so cute and from JCrew.

5. Did I mention my eye hurts?

6. I really thought I’d get 10 things on this list, but it doesn’t look like that’s going to happen.

7. OH! Have you seen this blog? http://catalogliving.net/ It’s the blog of a lady who I think is an actor/comedienne. She was looking at a catalog one day and laughing at the set up of the scenes and started making up stories about the people who “lived” in them. Now it’s a whole blog and some of them just crack me up! She uses a lot of Pottery B*rn.

8. Here are some pics from the summer!

4th of July in Blowing Rock

Becca knee boarding for the first time

He snuggled up to Mom and clung to her arm for about the first 5 minutes of the boat ride.

Then he got brave and moved to the front!

Jumping off the boat house

9. I’m so ready for Fall!!

10. Hey! I made it to 10! Happy Friday!!

I think I’m part Brazilian now

2010-08-24T00:18:00.001-04:00

I’m not gonna lie. I love Brazil. Part of my heart is there. I’ve been there 5 times now and I love it a little more each time.

Daniel led our mission trip there again this time and honestly, that’s pretty stressful. The preparation for the trip was especially frustrating this time and almost made me dread going. And now after the trip, I can’t even believe I said that!

Daniel with Baby Daniel (yes, named after him!)

Damiana and family, including Baby Wendi

After our guys beat the Brazilians 3-0

Not quitting my day job to become a brick mason anytime soon

The cutest siblings in all of Brazil

Ok, maybe THESE are the cutest siblings

Sweet sisters

Our Brazilian daughter, Laura

Bailey sharing the gospel with witness bracelets

Encouraging the girls to use the bracelets to tell others about Jesus (and they did!)

“But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth." Acts 1:8

Around Here

2010-05-26T11:48:00.001-04:00

Heard around the house lately:

Yesterday, while I'm Shredding (Day 7 or 8, first day of Level 2):

Hayes: What are you doing?

Me: Resting a second.

Hayes: You're not supposed to rest!! (He's heard Jillian say that.)

Me: Thanks, Mr. Lying on the Floor.

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Hayes, after doing 5 jumping jacks and lying on the floor for 7 minutes: I'm dying!

Oh please.

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We were playing Uno and I called him out for not saying "Uno" and he says, "Come on, Lady!"

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Getting out of the car after being gone for almost a week:

Hayes: Home Sweet Home! Sweet Home Alabama!

Um, yeah, we live in NC.

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And just a little taste of where we've been lately:

Show Us Your Life

2010-04-23T13:13:00.001-04:00

So I'm participating in Kelly's Show Us Your Life Friday. And today it's How You Met Your Husband.

Anyone who has known us for a while probably knows this story and usually gets a good laugh from it. It's pretty involved. ha!

Once upon a time, way back in 1985, I was going on my first beach trip with my youth group. Every year they went to Garden City, SC to the retreat center there. And every year our youth group met another youth group from Asheville there. Our pastors were friends and somebody had the idea to join our groups together for a trip and there ya go. That year was like the 12th or 13th year for the trip.

And THAT year I met Daniel, who was in the Asheville youth group. I definitely remember him that first year. Not sure he remembers me though. Honestly he was just a goofy almost 9th grader hanging out with his friends. I was a shy almost 7th grader who was just trying to figure out this whole youth group thing.

So years go by and every summer we see the same kids who live 1 1/2 hrs away from us. Friendships develop. During the school year, we would write letters (real, actual letters!) and keep up a little that way.

Then yada yada yada, Daniel and I start liking each other just before my senior year in high school. (yes, I just yada yada yada-ed my whole middle and high school years!) We started dating at the beach that year.

Here we are!

This was my senior year and Daniel was in his sophomore yr of college. 3 1/2 hours away. And my parents, in their infinite wisdom, would not let me go visit him. So he came to visit me a few weekends a month.

And then somebody (ok, me) broke up with him in December of that year. On a Saturday night. While he was at my house. For the weekend. How horrible is that?!

Years go by. Ok, about 6 actually. I'm out of college, working nights as a nurse and living at home. We re-connect and date for a few months. This time he breaks up with me. At HIS parents' house. The night before we are to go to a wedding. Together. Oh yeah. Fun times. And some (not me!) might say, pay back.

More years go by. Really, 3. I'm working nights still, just bought a townhouse, loving life. Enter into the picture again, Daniel. Meets me in the parking lot before work and basically tells me I'm the one for him. I'm pretty sure I just let him talk and then told him I was finally loving my life and who did he think he was to come in and throw this at me. I'm sure I was a joy to behold and why in the world didn't he high-tail it out of there? Well, thank goodness he didn't!

After a good talking-to from our friend Ashleigh, he backed off and gave me some time. A few phone calls over the next few months and I was ready to date him again.

So get this: First date (again) in July 1998, engaged in September (in Garden City), married in May 1999. What can I say? When you know (FINALLY KNOW!), you know.

And of course, everybody in our lives, including our parents said, "It's about time you two figured out what we've known for years!"

So here I sit, 11 years later, homeschooling our 2 children and totally loving re-telling our story. I love our special story and the way God kept bringing us back together.

And today:

Simple Woman's Daybook

2010-04-06T11:12:00.002-04:00

Outside my window...the beautiful sunshine and warm weather. And pollen. Don't forget the pollen.

I am thinking...that I'm in big trouble because my daughter is not even 10 and the drama and attitude is about to put me in the crazy house.

I am thankful for...Girls' Weekend At The Beach!!! (See above!)

From the learning room...Transcontinental Railroad, 7s times tables, spelling words, pronouns, poems, and drama. :)
From the kitchen...fresh veggies and fruit from the farmer's market. Yay!!

I am wearing...green and purple pjs. Yes it's almost 11 AM, don't judge.

I am going...to take the kids to Carowinds even though my daughter's attitude might tempt me to leave her there. It's called grace. And also I don't want to be stuck here with her all day. ha!
I am reading...Eighth Shepherd by Bodie & Brock Thoene (series that my mom got me started reading)

I am hoping...that I will maintain my positive attitude and good mood all day long. Some days it's a struggle. (Who am I kidding with the 'some'?)

I am hearing...the hum of the computer, Hayes playing, and Becca singing along with her MP3 player (O, Happy Day!). Almost makes up for the 'tude.

Around the house...kids doing school, dishwasher washing, toys on the floor.

One of my favorite things...my parents' beach house. I'm so stinking excited to go! Added bonus, I get to see a bloggy-turned-real-life friend while I'm there!

A few plans for the rest of the week: park with friends, washing clothes, packing, travel, then beach, sun, lots of laughing and talking and reading and oh my word I'm so excited!!
A Picture to Share:

What's a Star Wars birthday party without light sabers? And can you believe I was the sucker who bought them? I blame it on a weak moment at Party City.
See more posts at Simple Woman's Daybook.

Things I'm Thinking About Today

2010-03-31T19:32:00.002-04:00

Some are random, silly things. Some, not so much. And a few pics thrown in just because.

--My 5 year old (as of yesterday!) was talking about a little boy who threw dirt at him and spit at him last night at Becca's softball practice. He said, "I wasn't mad. I just had on my regular face."
At first, of course, I laughed. How funny is that? My regular face. Then the lesson started to come. We'd just been doing a devotion using Resurrection Eggs. Today was the dice, signifying the Roman soldiers gambling for Jesus' robe. The devotion talked about Jesus praying for and forgiving the men who were making fun of him, beating him, and killing him.
So we talked about what you do when people are mean to you. And how like God to give us a real life situation the night before!
Hayes had on his regular face when a boy was mean to him. He didn't hit back, apparently didn't even get mad. Wish I could say the same for my reaction when I found out. (I wasn't there.)


--Can't stop thinking about a neighborhood kid who was here when we were sitting down for dinner tonight. With a very surprised look on her face, she said, "You all eat dinner TOGETHER?" Yes. "We don't. Some of us eat at the table, some in the living room, some upstairs." No judgement here. I just can't help think of what they might be missing.

--I didn't watch Idol yet and I'm not sure I will. I read BooMama's recap and it didn't seem like I missed much. Should I watch or just skip it?


--Beth Moore's book So Long, Insecurity is rocking my world. Anybody else?


--Eight days until girl's weekend at the beach with my bestie and our moms. CAN. NOT. WAIT. I need a vacation in the worst way.


--Sometimes happiness is a Star Wars tent and a Darth Vader candle.


**Edited to add: I have no idea why this video is so big. I tried to fix it but couldn't. You get the idea. ha!
--Sometimes it's THIS:

American Idol - Top 11

2010-03-23T22:01:00.001-04:00

Billboard's number 1 songs is the theme this week.

Lee - The Letter Totally agree with the reviews I've seen of Lee, he needs to show more personality. He can sing for sure. I like this jazzy version of the song and he could be in danger of the brass section overpowering him on stage. But I think he's showing more personality tonight. Probably his best performance so far.

Paige - Against All Odds Don't know if it's her voice problems or what but she's seems really pitchy. Awww man, the whole thing was just off. I hate that for her. Can't believe Lacey went home instead of her. (Is that mean?)

Tim - Crazy Little Thing Called Love Bless him, he's trying to show more personality tonight, but Simon's going to go OFF on the sliding around on the stage. The vocals were ok for me. I'm glad he was moving around more, so performance-wise it was better. But vocally it was just, eh. Whoa, he got slammed. I feel bad for him but it really was kind of uncomfortable.

Aaron - I Don't Want To Miss A Thing I can tell his voice is not as strong as usual, but I think he's doing great. Not his best performance, but pretty solid.

Crystal - Me & Bobby McGee Have no idea if she took Miley's advice or not, but it sounded crazy good. I don't know that song but I could totally hear her recording it. Do I sound like a broken record yet? Winner.

Michael - When A Man Loves A Woman Great song for him, although predictable. He's in it to win it, as they say. Homeboy can flat out sang. Outstanding. Seriously, Kara and Simon are just nit-picking now.

Andrew - I Heard It Through the Grapevine Didn't love it. I think Simon may be onto something. Maybe the Straight Up performance was just overrated.

Katie - Big Girls Don't Cry I like her voice, but I kind of think it fell apart a little at the end. Not her best performance. She does look better, younger. And a better song for her.

Casey - The Power of Love Back to the Future, anyone? I always think of that movie when I hear this song. The other guitarists are showing more personality than he is. He needs to work on that. Vocals are great as always.

Didi - You're No Good I don't get the judges. I liked this a lot. I totally disagree with them. I thought it was great and she looked comfortable on stage. But what do I know?

Siobhan - Superstition That girl is so different when she is on stage. When she talks, she's so soft-spoken and almost childlike. Then she gets on stage and starts channeling Adam Lambert with all the screaming. I really like her but the crazy screaming is getting on my nerves. Does she have to do it in every song now?

In my opinion, Tim and Paige are in trouble. But the teeny bopper vote will probably save Tim. Time for Lost!

Blog post ideas from an NBA game

2010-03-17T22:57:00.001-04:00

We took the kids to a Bobcats game tonight. We actually won the tickets at another game a few weeks ago. The seats were supposed to be in the upper level, but hey they were free. When we got there, we found out they were lower level, 10th row from the floor, right behind the Bobcats bench. Sweet! With new owner Michael Jordan sitting on the end of the bench!

So I'm sitting there, taking it all in. I admit I'm not a big NBA fan. I'd much rather watch a pro baseball game or even football. And would always rather watch a college game of any kind.

Two and a half hours later there are all kinds of blog post topics running around in my head. Here's some insight into my mind.

--The Lady Cats. From the spandex to the knee-high boots. To the not so great dancing. And I know good dancing. I've seen Making the Team. These girls are not DCC material.

--A grown man (a father, no less) who took a T-shirt out of my daughter's hands. (Oh yes he did. Holdmeback. HOLD ME BACK.)

--People watching vs. Game watching (guess what I did)

--How excited my kids get over a basketball game. Very into it! Learning the players names and asking questions. So fun.

--So cotton candy. How can they charge $4 for basically sugar and air?

--What is it about St. Patrick's Day that can make an otherwise sane and sober 20-something woman break out the green short shorts, skin-tight tank top, green and white striped knee socks, some green Mardi Gras beads, and a rub-on shamrock tattoo and go out IN PUBLIC?

--Michael Jordan: How do you look the exact same as when you played at UNC? How?

--Beer in cups should have lids. That way it wouldn't get spilled on my shoes. Is it the 5 beers they had before they walked to their seat with the 6th one, overflowing and spilling on everyone they pass? Or are all beer drinkers just clumsy and inconsiderate? I don't walk around with my Coke sloshing out all over the floor and whoever happens to be in my path. Just wondering. Maybe a lid would help. Or a sippy cup.

Bobcats won by the way. I do know that. Beat Oklahoma City Thunder 100-92. Who even knew OKC had a team?

American Idol - Top 12!!

2010-03-17T11:51:00.001-04:00

It's Top 12, people! And they're on the big stage. What up with the new announcer? Is that the Kodak Theater? Where are they? What in heaven's name does Lacey have on? I still can't believe Lilly's gone.

Wow, the Stones. This could get interesting.

Michael - Miss You Good to see him with his little baby. Since he missed the birth and all. That still bugs me. Ok, I'll let it go. He's great. He definitely looked comfortable on the big stage. (Is it me or is Kara totally making sense this year? Whaat?)

Didi - Play With Fire Not crazy about this song, but she did a fantastic job. A little mess up on the words maybe? I thought something sounded weird and Ellen confirmed. She covered well. She'll be here next week.

Casey - It's All Over Now Loved his video clip. How sweet is his mom with her Casey James shirt? Love this song for him. It fits. I thought the judges might give him a hard time for the guitar too because he was almost focusing on that more.

Lacey - Ruby Tuesday Awww, her dad's so cute talking about her. Not my favorite performance but I liked it. I just like her.

Andrew - Gimme Shelter Andrew as a little boy looks like my friend Traci's little boy. (Right?) I liked this. Randy says he was pitchy. Ah, what does he know?

Katie - Wild Horses Great vocals. Good choice. Don't love the dress.

Tim - Under My Thumb I don't think the reggae thing was "crazy." His vocals were good. The teeny bopper vote will keep him around.

Siobhan - Paint It Black Whoa with the note near the end. Wow. She's crazy good. Just as much emphasis on "crazy" as "good." She definitely knows who she is.

Lee - Beast of Burden I really like his voice. That gravely, sand paper quality is cool. Yay!

Paige - Honky Tonk Women She does have a great voice, laryngitis or not. Don't know how much longer she'll be around though.

Aaron - Angie He's looking more comfortable on stage. Good song choice for him. Didn't blow me away but I think it was good.

Crystal - You Can't Always Get What You Want I'd say Siobhan was my favorite tonight, but Crystal is my favorite overall. I've said it before (I think), she's in a league of her own.

No time to read over this again. I've left my kids to their own devices while I watch this. Who wants to bet they haven't been doing school? ha!

Blogaversary!!

2010-03-15T13:13:00.001-04:00

I just realized that today is my Second Blogaversary! Oh my how life has changed in 2 years!

Now I know I haven't been the best blogger in the last, well, ever really. I mean, I've got 14 posts this year and it's March 15! ha!

But this blog has never been about getting lots of readers. (Obviously!) It started as an online journal of our lives, a fun and different way to record the exciting and the mundane events of this little family. And as happens with my own personal written journal, it has it's season of neglect. Times when I just don't want to write anything, either because there's nothing to write or too much to write. Make sense?

I am, however, interested in who is reading the blog. I know people read and don't comment all the time. (Hello Kettle, my name is Pot!) Will you satisfy my curiosity and comment? Thanks!!

And in totally unrelated news, seriously, how cute is this?

The Many Faces of Hayes

2010-03-12T17:47:00.001-05:00

Hayes likes to fool around with the camera, so to keep him occupied at Becca's basketball game last week I started snapping pictures while he was sitting on my lap.

Here's my little goofball:

I'd show you the ones he took by himself, but they were either the back of people's heads or straight up my nose. And no one wants to see that.

Happy Friday!

American Idol - Top 16 - Guys

2010-03-10T23:05:00.001-05:00

Lee - Fireflies I liked it. Good performance from him. Good grief with all the "moment" comments. Everybody has to have a "moment" this week. How many times did we hear that last night?

Alex - Trouble Ok it's time for him to just step up and shake off the nerves and get on with it. He still looks uncomfortable but not like he's going to throw up, so I guess that's progress. It didn't blow me away, but I thought it was pretty good.

Tim - Hallelujah I'm liking the acoustic guitar and I think he did a good job. I love that Ellen went up to hug him. Maybe it was his moment.

Andrew - Genie in a Bottle Ok, right off the bat I'm thinking this is a weird choice for him and a guitar. But he killed it with Straight Up, so who knows? I seriously didn't hate it! ha! I kind of liked it. I think I need to hear it again to say I loved it, but I definitely liked it.

Casey - You'll Think of Me Good choice for him. Not his best performance but he sounded great. He's in it for the long haul.

Aaron - I'm Already There Yikes, it's starting out rough. Definitely not as good as last week. Might have been too big for him. The end was a lot better than the beginning for sure.

Todrick - Somebody To Love Well, right off I'll just say nothing beats the Glee version of this. I'm a teeny bit obsessed. That said, I'm not crazy about this. I don't know why but there's something I don't like about him. It was better than anything else I've seen him do though.

Michael - This Woman's Work Best of the night. By far. The end. Amen.

I think Alex and Aaron are in trouble. What did you think?

American Idol - Top 16 - Girls

2010-03-09T21:03:00.001-05:00

Let's get right to it.

Katie - Breakaway Don't know if this was the right song choice for her or not. She seemed flat? sharp? something to me. Not crazy about this.

Siobhan - House of the Rising Sun Girl's got pipes. I love that you never know what she'll wear or sing. Such an original, that girl.

Can you tell they're trying to cram this into an hour show? No video clips and Ryan and Siobhan barely got off the stage before Lacey started singing.

Lacey - The Story I really like her voice. I don't think this will be the best performance of the night, but I liked it a lot. She seemed relaxed and in her element with this song.

Katelyn - I Feel the Earth Move Karaoke comments? Any bets? Not as good as last week by far but I think the vocals were good. They should be since she's top 16 and all but I totally agree with the judges. Too safe and she didn't seem like she was competing. Bummer. And I think Simon's restaurant comment counts as karaoke.

Didi - Rhiannon I SO love her voice. WAY better the Lean on Me last week. Great song for her. I loved it. Loved it. Love the bag, love the shoes, love everything. (Movie?)

Paige - Smile This was a little rough. Shaky and pitchy, right? Yikes.

Crystal - Give Me One Reason HOW does this girl not already have a contract? I like this better than the original. Killed it. And love her earrings.

Lily - I Fall To Pieces Seriously just go ahead and put her and Crystal in the finals. Do not pass GO, do not collect $200. Straight to the finals.

Paige and Katie should go. Maybe Katelyn. And after that, seeing any of these girls go will be a tragedy. Ok, maybe tragedy is a little dramatic. But sad, it will be sad.

Time to get Lost!

American Idol - Top 20

2010-03-03T22:01:00.001-05:00

Couldn't watch the guys last night so I decided not to blog. I watched this afternoon, so here are a few thoughts.

Loved Michael and Casey (Hayes asked "Is that a boy or a girl?").

Liked Alex, Aaron, Lee, and Kara's dress.

Did NOT like Jermaine calling God his "Homeboy."

And seriously with Alex and his made-up language? And the TMI about throwing up. Oh bless.

Jermaine's onesie? No. Words.

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Let's just get right to the girls.

Crystal - Long As I Can See The Light - So you'd never know she was sick yesterday. Somebody sign her NOW. If I didn't have this laptop on my lap, I'd stand up and clap. BRAVO. (Is 'misunderestimate' a word, Simon? My spell check says No.)

Haeley - The Climb - Good call on a younger song (haha I typed younger smile the first time). My husband is going off on her short skirt and her mom for letting her wear it. I tend to agree. I think the song was kind of rough. Not good. Maybe she has a career in making hair accessories?

Lacey - Kiss Me - Way better than last week. She's working out her nerves. I like her voice a lot. Loved. It.

Side note: The judges (Randy, I'm looking at you.) are driving me crazy with their comments. Change up the song too much, they get slammed. Don't change it up enough, they get slammed. I don't have a solution to that or anything. It just gets on my nerves.

Katie - Put Your Records On - I think this was a great song choice. I liked it immensely. Boo for the judges.

Didi - Lean On Me - Am I the only one who rolled her eyes at this song? Next week, Friends are Friends Forever. Song choice aside, I LOVE her voice.

Dang, Kara is harsh tonight. She needs to quit sitting beside Simon. I definitely do not think she was screeching. Is the sound so different in the studio?

Michelle - With Arms Wide Open - Um, Madonna circa 1984 called and she wants her outfit back. Not crazy about this. I liked the song and the way it was arranged but not so much the vocals. There were some good parts, but mostly I didn't like it as much as others tonight.

Lilly - A Change is Gonna Come - I agree with Ellen, she has IT. Whatever IT is, Lilly has it. Awesome, awesome.

Katelyn - The Scientist - A little boring to me, but her vocals are great tonight. And I love somebody who can play the piano, so points for that. I liked it mucho much.

Paige - Walk Away - I did not know that Kara wrote that song. I liked it. Good performance and she looked like she was having fun. Hey, Ellen said the same thing! Randy is so grouchy tonight. This song has too many words. The last song was so slow. I know they are judges and are supposed to critique but he's such a Negative Nelly.

Siobhan - Think - I keep forgetting how to say her name. She really is an interesting person, isn't she? Of COURSE she had a mohawk! She's screaming a little, but overall I like it. Ellen's Snuggie comment had me laughing out loud.

To sum it up: The girls KILLED it. They redeemed themselves this week.

Crystal and Siobhan were my favorites. I think Haeley and Michelle are in trouble.

American Idol - Top 24 - Guys

2010-02-25T10:26:00.001-05:00

The boys are singing tonight. Hopefully we won't have to worry about any skintight leggings or crocheted sweaters. You never know though. I'm blogging from my parents' house so who knows how this will go. I'm used to it just being me and Daniel in the room. Maybe I'll include everybody's comments. Participants include my parents, my brother Clay, his gf Natalie, and Becca. Hang on.

Todrick Hall - Since You've Been Gone Ok seriously what is this arrangement? I'm not even sure what I think about it. It's distracting me from the vocals. I think I'm Switzerland on this one. Natalie says: "you just never know when you'll need a whistle."

Aaron Kelly - Here Comes Goodbye Clay says: "Boo." Natalie says: "That's just because he (Clay) doesn't like Rascal Flatts." Mom says: "He's a cute kid." I think it was pretty good. Becca likes him and Dad just keeps making fun of Randy.

Jermaine Sellers - Get Here Not loving this. Some rough parts. Ok a lot of rough parts. Nobody in the room liked it either.

Tim Urban - Apologize I think this is good. What a cutie. Wow, Simon is harsh. Ok I really didn't think this was as bad as the judges did. Poor guy. I think he needs a hug.

Joe Munoz - You and I Both Not loving his man scarf. Natalie says: "He smiles a lot. That was good." I thought so too. For me, for you dawg, good job.

Tyler Grady - American Woman Mom says: "Well, I hate that." ha! Natalie says: "Simon's going to kill him." I didn't like it either. I agree with Ellen, he doesn't have much stage presence. She basically called him a poser. To the mall!

Lee Dewyze - Chasing Cars A little pitchy in places, but I like him. Clay says: "I wanted to like him." His voice reminds me of David Cook, so I hope he makes it through. Simon agrees with me. So there.

John Park - God Bless the Child The room didn't like it at all. Not crazy about the song anyway. Sorry Shania, not good.

Michael Lynche - This Love I like this song. Is he even playing the guitar? It bugs me when people touch the microphone with their lips. Do they clean it off before the next person? Can you even sterilize that? Anyway, I liked it ok but it didn't blow me away. Side note: How long can his wife use the whole you-missed-our-daughter's-birth thing? I'm thinking that's got a lot of mileage on it.

Alex Lambert - Wonderful World He looks scared. Ok, is it just nerves? That wasn't good. Uncomfortable is the right word, Simon. Oh bless him. I like his voice though.

FYI, Becca and Dad went to bed and Natalie is asleep in the chair.

Casey James - Heaven Ok, isn't Kara married? I liked the beginning without the band. Nobody else has done that tonight. It was good. I think they are just making him uncomfortable now. He's going to go far because of his looks alone, but he has a great voice too. Ryan's joke about Kara's HR meeting cracked me up.

Andrew Garcia - Sugar We're Going Down Anybody else getting a Danny Gokey vibe? Seriously the best of the night for me. Hands down. I don't know this song, so maybe that's why. The judges didn't like it but I think vocally it was the best tonight.

Just realized that I didn't absolutely love any of these guys. It was kinda rough I thought. Maybe first night nerves.

My faves for tonight are Casey and Andrew. And I think maybe Tyler and Jermaine are in trouble.

Later peeps!

American Idol - Top 24 - Girls

2010-02-23T22:04:00.001-05:00

Well, it's American Idol time. Time for cute little Kris Allen and his Ford driving self to give up the title of YOUR American Idol.

Has anyone really missed Paula? I haven't. I think Ellen was a great choice. She definitely brings the funny. And I'm finding I don't really miss the crazy.

It's funny Kara's talking about America knowing this group already. I don't think I even know any names yet.

Paige Miles - "It's Alright Now" I'm not loving this. I didn't like the beginning but it's getting better. Gorgeous eyes.

I'm loving that car that can record your CD's.

GLEE!!!

Ashley Rodriguez - "Happy" There were some good moments and some not so good moments. Nerves, maybe? She's such a pretty girl.

Janell Wheeler - "What About Love" Not sure she has the voice for this song. I really liked her song in Hollywood with the guitar, so I hope she stays. And I so want to put an "e" on the end of her name. It just looks like it needs an "e". Not that she cares what I think. But still.

Lilly Scott - "Fixing a Hole" I've never heard this song and I had to rewind my DVR twice to figure out the title. That said, even though I think the song is as weird as the title, she did a good job. I like her, so original. I also had to rewind to hear what Simon said at the beginning of his comments. What?

Katelyn Epperly - "Oh Darlin'" Girlfriend has some hair. Wow, that was great! I liked it. I think Randy needs a blue watch.

Haeley Vaughn -"I Want To Hold Your Hand" Although shouldn't it be "I Wanna Hold Your Hand"? Apparently she's a fan of the headband. I like this arrangement, although she's a little screechy at times.

Lacey Brown - "Landslide" (aka The Girl They Let Go To Keep Megan Joy Last Season) Big mistake. Big. Huge. (Name that movie.) I just didn't like her and she was not very good in concert. She's kind of all over the place. Yikes. I'm not loving that. In trouble.

Seriously if you're not watching Glee, I have a question for you. WHY??

Michelle Delamor - "Falling" With that song, it could have gone bad quickly. But I thought it was great. And hey, what's a corporate singer? Anybody?

Didi Benami - "The Way I Am" Ok, now I do remember her and I liked her singing Terrified. I remember laughing at Simon liking the song even though Kara wrote it. Speaking of Megan Joy she kind of sounds like her. I like Didi's voice WAY better. Love her. And a shout out to grandma for making the sweater.

These Old Spice commercials are cracking me up. "Did you know that I am riding this horse backwards?"

Siobhan Magnus - "Wicked Game" She has a great voice. I might like this better than the original. Definitely quirky girl.

Crystal Bowersox - "Hand in My Pocket" She's kind of in a league of her own, huh? I really like her. Aaaand I'm tired of typing.

Katie Stevens - "Feeling Good" All I can think of is me at 17 and then I just laugh. And say bless my heart. Who has that much confidence at 17? Whoa. I agree she needs to BE 17.

I think Lacey and maybe Janell-no-e are in trouble tonight. Not sure I'll be blogging tomorrow night since I'll be at my mom's. But I'm going ahead and calling Casey James as a fan fave. And by fan I mean girls. :)

Jen. Out.

Oh bless

2010-02-15T14:53:00.001-05:00

I looked in Hayes' room to check on him a few minutes ago. I'd sent both kids to their rooms for some quiet time.

Here's what I saw:

"I'm sitting in my toy box, Mom."

You don't say.

Soooo.....

2010-02-12T15:04:00.001-05:00

So, what did you do today, Jennifer?

Well, I'm glad you asked. I paid for a new water heater. For our house. You know, the one that's ON THE MARKET.

I'm thinking we need to take the sign out of the yard and stay for a while to get some of our money's worth. Take lots of hot showers and wash clothes and dishes all day. But then the dishwasher will break down and we'll be right back where we started.

And then! And then I come to my senses and am thankful to have water to heat and the money to replace things that break.

And although things don't always go like I plan or even like I want, I am reminded that I am blessed. Blessed beyond measure and way beyond what I deserve.

How has God blessed YOU today?

Simple Woman's Daybook

2010-02-01T14:10:00.001-05:00

Outside my window...snow!! I love love love snow. I have such fun memories of snow days from my childhood. (Right, Ashleigh?) And it's carried over to adulthood. I get even more excited than my kids I think.

I am thinking...about a statistic I heard on The View, that a woman's eggs are 90% gone by the age of 30. Whoa.

I am thankful for...warm clothes and a warm house. It's never far from my mind that these things are blessings and not rights.

From the learning room...Robert Fulton, overviews of Indiana and Mississippi, 6s multiplication tables, art, science class, and spelling words.

I am wearing...jeans, NC State long sleeved T-shirt, and 2 pairs of socks. And longjohns. And I'm still cold.

I am going...to watch the LOST premiere tomorrow. Can't wait!!!

I am reading...On the Banks of Plum Creek (to the kids).

I am hoping...this is not the only snow we get this year.

I am hearing...the kids playing upstairs with neighbor kids. No school today for the public school kids. No such luck for mine. :)

Around the house...clean kitchen, clean bathrooms, vacuumed floors. Yay!

One of my favorite things...snuggling with the kids while we read history.

A few plans for the rest of the week: Target group, basketball practice, trip to The Homeschool Room and lunch with friends, and who knows what else!

Go on over to the Simple Woman's Daybook blog for more daybook entries.

Snow!!

2010-01-31T11:30:00.001-05:00

Friday evening through Saturday we got a little snow and sleet. Not very exciting for those of you who live cool places like Colorado or New England, or even Western NC, but for us, well, we'll take what we can get!

We all went out yesterday morning, but since it was still sleeting I didn't take the camera. We bought sleds a few weeks ago in faith. All the ice made it perfect sledding on the roads around our house.

Hayes made it about an hour and then we brought him in for a day of video games and play time with us. (Ok, so it was games with Daddy and Mommy had a Glee marathon.)

Rebecca stayed out ALL DAY. She was sledding and in and out of friends' houses until I had to call her home at 6pm. And we had gone out at 9am!

I went out with the kids this morning and let me tell you, I was a little scared! The ice was twice as fast as it was yesterday and the mailboxes and gutters made it a little hazardous! ha! You couldn't exactly dig your feet into the ice to slow down.

We could push the kids on our almost flat driveway and they'd go all the way to the street and down to the corner!

I'm sledding behind her snapping pics. Probably not very smart.

Another hill.

Down the hill....

And around the corner!

When Hayes figured out that he wasn't going to get to play video games all day, he decided to join us.

Fun times! But I was ready for their friends to come out to play so I could come inside! ha!

Sometimes you're the bug....

2010-01-29T13:10:00.001-05:00

You ever have one of those days? I mean, one of THOSE days. The kind of day that you just want to do over. And it's not even noon. I'm not the only one, am I?

And if I'm going to be honest, (and really, why wouldn't I, if I'm going to talk about it here) but if I'm going to be honest I'd have to say it's not even because the day itself has been so bad.

It's because I have been.

I've been grouchy, impatient, unkind, easily frustrated and just all around NOT NICE. And the guilt over acting this way towards my children is immense. Overwhelming even. I'm talking a stand-in-the-shower-until-the-hot-water-runs-out cryfest over it all.

So it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out I didn't have my quiet time this morning, right? But the cryfest sent me to my knees. And of course my Father met me there. God Calling for today said that He heard David when he cried out from the depths and that He hears me too. Crying out from the shower.

I've asked for forgiveness. Pleaded for help. Apologized to my kids.

There are consequences though. There always are. My kids are grouchy too. I set the mood in the house. I made my daughter cry today. THAT sucks. (I know that is such a tacky word, but it really is the only one that fits right now.) I see in their eyes that they are worried, scared even that I'm going to yell again.

And now I'm crying again because Hayes just climbed up on the couch beside me and kissed me on the cheek. For no reason. Thank you God. I am so very undeserving of anything good, especially today.

I know His mercies are new every morning. Maybe they are new every afternoon as well.

Simple Woman's Daybook

2010-01-25T15:59:00.001-05:00

For today.....

Outside my window...some crazy wind. And the beautiful sunshine.

I am thinking...I should really be doing laundry, but after I post this I will be starting my new book.

I am thankful for...libraries. I know, I'm such a nerd. But we just checked out 8 books for school for things we'll be learning about this week and I just love that it's free.

From the learning room...this week it's Thomas Jefferson, The Louisiana Purchase, Louisiana, the 6's (times tables), plants, spelling words and proper nouns.

From the kitchen...leftovers from Pei Wei and a new BBQ place we tried this weekend. Not cooking tonight since the kids have basketball practice. And I'm so sad about that.

I am wearing...brown sweats (see? my uniform!) and a Seattle T-shirt.

I am creating...house plans. Ok, so I'm not creating them, but I am finding ways to tweak them so they fit our family.

I am going...to meet a friend to catch up tonight.

I am reading...Breaking Dawn (well, in about 5 minutes I will be!)

I am hoping...the people who looked at our house Saturday come back next weekend! Looks like they might!!

I am hearing...the wind outside and my 4 year old playing video games.

Around the house...shoes in the floor, mail on the couch, laundry in the dryer, and my feet on the coffee table.

One of my favorite things...witnessing my children learn new things every day. And most days, they actually ENJOY it!

A few plans for the rest of the week: school, school, school. And my friend just gave me the idea of going to the Nature Museum for a field trip. We ARE studying plants this week!

Head on over to the Simple Woman's Daybook blog for more entries.

The Simple Woman's Daybook

2010-01-18T18:03:00.001-05:00

I've seen these daybook posts on Marybeth's blog for a while and decided to participate today. Loosely translated: I can't think of anything to blog about.

Outside my window...the sun going down after a beautiful day.

I am thinking...about making chocolate chip cookies.

I am thankful for...a husband who, although he had to work today, came home early (surprised us!) and took us all to the park.

I am wearing...brown sweats, purple hoodie, socks (aka, my uniform)

I am remembering...my kids throwing football at the park today and my 4 yr old's almost perfect spiral.

I am going...crazy. No, not really. To make cookies after I finish this post. (See, I'm still thinking about them!)

I am currently reading...my Bible. Need to get the 3rd Twilight book. Yes, I realize the two don't exactly go hand in hand. Don't judge.

I am hoping...my house sells soon.

On my mind...finding land to build on and deciding on a house plan.

Pondering these words..."Live life without regrets." (Robert Rogers)

From the kitchen...the smell of chicken quesadillas from supper.

Around the house...QUIET! Everyone is at basketball practice and I'm all alone. Ahhh.......

One of my favorite things...having coffee and visiting with a friend.

For more daybook links, go HERE.

Shoot some hoops!

2010-01-10T15:45:00.001-05:00

Well, it's started. We now have two kids playing sports. Two practices a week. Two games on Saturdays. Ahhhh. It's just like when I was growing up except now I'm the one driving here and there and shelling out money for snacks.

And I seriously LOVE IT!

And who couldn't love this:

Or this:

Hayes was taking pictures and he likes to get all up in your face. We will not be showing the ones he took of me. Trying to lean back away from him gave me like 5 chins.

So this is our life on Saturdays for a few months. Loving every minute of it.

Remind me I said that about March, ok?

Christmas Fun

2009-12-31T10:47:00.001-05:00

Blogging and I have been on the outs this last year as I'm sure you've noticed. I haven't really taken the time to analyze what's up with that except to say this year has been a year of change for us and sometimes I just didn't want to/know how to share all of that.

We've had a great year, don't get me wrong. But a lot of change. Some of it has been indescribably beautiful. Some has caused pain. But it has all been a Holy Spirit-led ride that we don't want to get off!

So. All that to say I haven't been blogging. (duh) But Christmas with family, friends, snow, and sickness has given me some blog material! Here goes.

We traveled to both sets of parents's again this year. Makes for lots of packing and unpacking and figuring out sleeping arrangements but I really wouldn't have it any other way.

Asheville still had a ton of snow and we were all excited to get to play!

My silly husband in Becca's Snuggie

This is the only pic I got of our nephew R (with sis-in-law L). He's seriously the happiest baby.

Granddaddy reading to the kids (Hayes and Cousin N)

We went to my parents' house Christmas Eve night because we were nervous about an ice storm coming that night messing up travel plans for the next morning.

Christmas morning

It was a Star Wars themed Christmas for Hayes.

He woke up feeling bad that morning and this was him by mid-afternoon. He wouldn't look at me for the picture.

Perked up a little to open more presents. See the theme?

Playing in the new tent. See the rosy cheeks?

Nephew T in his new chair. I forgot how difficult it is to get a 1 yr old to look at the camera.

See? Even the dogs were looking!

Annual get-together with my best friends from childhood. THIS photo shoot was an ordeal. All 3 husbands were taking pics and Ashleigh has this problem with closing her eyes when you take a picture. AND we were late for a family party so we were in a hurry. You should see the outtakes.

Ok, I'll show you some.

Finally Daniel was just snapping pics.

All the kids, minus sick Hayes. This was hurry-up-and-take-it-before-the-baby-runs-away.

Sorry for the never-ending post with all the pics but what do you expect from somebody who blogs every other month? Who knows when I'll be back?

Happy New Year!!!

Christmas Cards!!

2009-12-16T09:18:00.001-05:00

I'm participating in Faith's Christmas Card Carousel today. I LOVE Christmas cards. It's so nice to get something in the mailbox besides bills and junk!

Let me apologize in advance for the quality of my picture of our card. I took a dozen pics of it and couldn't get it to focus well at all!

Believe it or not, this one was the best one, even with the glare from the flash!

It says:

"Joy to the world! The Lord is come! May your heart be filled with the JOY of knowing Jesus came to the world for YOU!!

Merry Christmas from The Bridges"

Head on over to Faith's to see more cards!

Merry Christmas!!!

If You Came to My House Today.....

2009-11-13T15:48:00.001-05:00

I'm joining the party over at Kellie's blog. (Thanks to Meredith!)

So, if you came to my house today, here's what you'd find:

Just inside the door you would see where my husband fixed the floor going into the office. He had to glue a piece of wood down and then put two heavy bags of I-don't-know-what on top while it dried. It's a great look. Very classy. Ahem. Moving on.

You'd also see pictures, a towel bar, toilet paper holder, trash can, and a table in the dining room. We painted the powder room yesterday and haven't put it back together yet. Nice.

(See, we're putting our house on the market next week and we're doing little fix-ups around the house.)

You might also see some happy kids playing outside. Very happy because they've been stuck inside ALL WEEK LONG. Sickness plus rain, oh the rain, adds up to bored kids (and mom!) with cabin fever!! There are rumors that the sun has come out today, but I'm not sure I remember what it looks like.

If you'd come a little earlier in the day, you would find me talking to a friend about home schooling. She's getting ready to take the plunge and is looking for encouragement/ideas/support. And since I love to talk about our preferred method of education, I was more than happy to have the chance.

And before you leave, I'd love to serve you some sweet tea or even some coffee. I bought Peppermint Mocha creamer today and I'm dying for an excuse to use it!!

I might even encourage you to come back tomorrow. And it would have nothing to do with it being Work On The House Day. I promise!

Want to join the carnival? Check it out HERE.

Happy Fall, y'all!

2009-11-01T14:56:00.001-05:00

It's been so long since I've blogged I might need to introduce myself!! Hello, my name is Jennifer and I've been a bad blogger.

I knew it had been a while when my mom, who can't even email, said, "You never blog anymore!"

Yesterday was quite the family fun day around here. We started out the day at the circus with Becca's soccer team. Kind of an end of the season celebration. With clowns. (Have I ever mentioned that I dislike clowns?)

Forgot my camera. I did take one pic of a clown with my phone to send to my friend Chad. To torment him really. He likes clowns even less than I do. But it didn't turn out very well, because 1) my phone doesn't take great pics, and 2) you didn't expect me to get very close, did you?

Next we went to 2, count 'em, 2!! fall festivals. Cause we are very into the ~~candy~~ family togetherness.

Here's our little Clone trooper, Commander Rex (apparently the Leader of the Clone troopers, I'm being told right now. This is from Star Wars, if you aren't in the know.)

And our Brazilian soccer player.

This is also known as "doesn't really want to dress up but doesn't want to sacrifice the candy." And no, she didn't have two buckets. One is Hayes's.

Here's my costume.

This is called "Mama doesn't do dress-up." Besides, aren't big cocktail rings in?

The following pictures are known as "taking pictures in the car of kids hopped up on sugar."

There's my sweet girl.

And I'll end with a funny from Hayes. (If you're a FB friend, sorry for the repeat. But it's worth repeating.)

We were driving in from picking up our babysitter Friday night and I guess Hayes felt the need to let Shelby in on new stuff going on at our house. He says, "We have a magician chicken on the door!" People, it's a turkey with a pilgrim hat!

Oh bless. I just love that little guy.

What's that song? "I Left My Heart in Brazil"?

2009-09-15T16:26:00.001-04:00

Ok, maybe that's not it. But I DID. I think we all did. I don't even know where to begin to blog about it. You can go HERE to see what we blogged while on the trip.

I think I'll just let pictures do the talking for right now.

Remember her??

Look how much Daisy has grown!!

And do you remember stories about Baby Wendi HERE and HERE?

Look at her now!! I KNOW!!

Souls were saved, relationships were made and strengthened, a roof was raised, and GOD WAS PRAISED!! Glory!!

Adios Amigos!

2009-09-03T10:24:00.001-04:00

Yeah, I know that's Spanish, but whatever.

Today we begin our 4th trip to Brazil. And I am SO excited! The Lord has moved mightily for our team and we know that He can provide "beyond anything we could ask or imagine" while we're there.

We covet your prayers as we travel and as we seek to show Jesus to the people of the outback of Brazil. Check out World Outback's blog HERE. We hope to be able to blog throughout the trip. And you can see stories from my previous trips HERE.

Tchau! (Now that's Portuguese!)

My children, the sea captains

2009-08-31T12:50:00.001-04:00

We're studying Christopher Columbus this week in history. And air in science.

So put these two together and what do you have?

The Nina and the Santa Maria sailing from Spain to the New World. Or you know, aluminum foil boats being blown from one side of the sink to the other. We work with what we've got, people.

What happened to the Pinta, you ask? Well the Pinta was a casualty of economic times. Translation? Aluminum foil does not grow on trees and mama is ~~cheap~~ frugal.

Sleepless in You Know Where

2009-08-28T17:01:00.001-04:00

So if you're my FB friend, this is probably a repeat for you. And I'm pretty sure all 5 of you ARE my FB friends. Sorry!

I got to tag along with Daniel last weekend for a business trip to Seattle. I never realized Seattle was such a tourist destination! It's a fun city!

AND. All that traveling we lived through last year paid off in frequent flier miles because my ticket was FREE! It doesn't get any better than THAT, amen?

Driving in from the airport.

Original St*rbucks, with her little topless self.

Pike Public Market was a happening place! We even saw a wedding party having pictures taken there.

We didn't get any pictures of fish flying through the air, but this is where it happens.

My very favorite place. It smelled heavenly!

View of the city from the Space Needle

Getting read for the Ducks Tour

One of our driver's silly hats

Building used for exterior shots of the hospital in Grey's Anatomy. FYI, NOT a hospital.

Safeco Field (didn't get to go to a game)

Sleepless in Seattle house

(By the way, I could not find Jason's house to save my life!)

Seaplane (Seaplane, Faith!) landing right beside us in the lake.

Me and my sweetie on a ferry to Bainbridge Island

And I think that's enough, right? I mean, my word, that's a lot of pictures and they're not even that interesting!

So, in conclusion, our Seattle trip was tons of fun, refreshing, and it didn't even rain! (We're thinking they made up all that rain nonsense so they won't get too many visitors. Secret's out!!)

I smell freshly sharpened pencils

2009-08-16T21:28:00.001-04:00

Well, it happened. Summer has ended. At least our summer break from school has ended. And no one is more sad (sadder?)about that than me!

I'm a little stressed about using a new curriculum. I felt like we (read, I) needed something more structured this year. We're getting into some history/geography in 3rd grade and Mama needed some direction.

Here's what we're using this year, if you're interested:

My Father's World (for Bible, history, some science)

Math U See

Spell to Write and Read

A Reason for Handwriting (starting cursive!)

Grammar workbook that I forget the name of (and yes, I know I ended that in a preposition. Ironic, no?)

nJoy science class (every other week)

art class (weekly)

So. That's our school plan. Add to all that working on handwriting with Hayes and trying to figure out the educational value of Star Wars on Playstation, and you've got yourself a homeschool, people!

Prayers are welcomed.

Who's read it?

2009-07-25T19:21:00.001-04:00

Ok, who's read Crazy Love? My friend Heather recommended it and I've seen it around, so I picked it up today at Lifeway.

Wow. I'm only on p.42 and I've got to share this passage.

Worry implies that we don't quite trust that God is big enough, powerful enough, or loving enough to take care of what's happening in our lives.

Stress says that the things we are involved in are important enough to merit our impatience, our lack of grace toward others, or our tight grip of control.

Basically, these two behaviors communicate that it's okay to sin and not trust God because the stuff in my life is somehow exceptional. Both worry and stress reek of arrogance. They declare our tendency to forget that we've been forgiven, that our lives here are brief, that we are headed to a place where we won't be lonely, afraid, or hurt ever again, and that in the context of God's strength, our problems are small, indeed.

Why are we so quick to forget God? Who do we think we are?

I find myself relearning this lesson often. Even though I glimpse God's holiness, I am still dumb enough to forget that life is all about God and not about me at all. ------Francis Chan, Crazy Love

How good is that? I mean I know that worry is wrong. The Bible specifically says "Do not worry." But I've never thought of stress in that way.

Really, how often do we use stress as an excuse for our behavior? "I know I yelled at the kids, but I'm just so stressed!" We wear our stress almost as a badge that reads, "Hey, look at me! I'm stressed out!" Like it's a competition to see who can be the most stressed. Like it makes us seem so busy and so important and like we have so many things going on.

But doesn't stress, along with worry, do just what Francis Chan says? Don't they just say that we don't trust God with our stuff? That our stuff is too big for God? That because we have so much to deal with (usually alone, right?) it's okay that we act ugly toward our spouse. Or snap impatiently at the kids. Or retreat into ourselves and not reach out to others who may need our encouragement because we've just got too much on our plates.

Oh that we could and would surrender it all, palms up, to the only One who IS big enough to handle all our stuff. All our mess. Oh that we would keep in mind that this is not our home and that we're not SUPPOSED to feel comfortable here.

It's all about Him. And stress and worry makes it all about me.

I'll let you know how the rest of the book turns out.....

A summer in pictures. And a video.

2009-07-22T17:03:00.004-04:00

Oh the fun that we've had this summer. We had a family trip to Hilton Head, a family trip to Myrtle Beach, Carowinds, pool, cook-outs with friends, fireworks, and lots and lots of playing. Nothing overly exciting and I forgot my camera on more than one occasion. Nice. But here are a few highlights.

Our first beach trip over Mother's Day weekend.

(Nice present, no?)

My cute little beach bum

Ok, first, I was excited to turn around in my chair and see this going on behind me. Second, how old are these people? Don't they look like they should be going to prom??

And yes, the groom totally has on sneakers and the bride and all her attendants have on white flip flops.

A little family photo shoot at Harbor Town

Taken by Becca

Imagine my joy when I saw these chairs set up on the 18th green, across the marina.

Apparently we had just missed our second wedding of the day!

Well, I think this speaks for itself.

End of the year party for softball for our little athlete

Second beach trip to my parents' beach house. When we weren't on the beach or at the pool, this is what we were doing. My kids call it the Bob and Larry game. Not sure it's real name. Also there was way too much Uno.

On the other hand, there could NEVER be too much of this little guy, 6 month old cousin Ty.

It's a bird, it's a plane....

I could never get them to look at the same time.

4th of July festivities (photo courtesy of my friend Melissa since I didn't take my camera. Thanks!)

My husband spent 10 days in the Amazon area of Brazil. This is a baptism service that they attended.

Sunset on the river (forgive me, I forget the name but I know it's not the Amazon.)

Dad's fan club at the airport (And yes I do own more than just this green dress, ha!)

We went to Carowinds last week when the kids were at the grandparents. Daniel took this with his phone so it's hard to tell, but we are actually lying down! The whole roller coaster ride you are lying down! I totally freaked out the first time I rode. This is just after the second ride.

It's been a great summer so far. We are gearing up for another mission trip to Brazil in September. Daniel is leading this trip to the same area we have been to 3 times previously. You can read about those trips HERE. Fundraising is in full swing. Click on the links if you're interested in a soccer tournament or some good old barbeque.

Oh! I almost forgot I said something about a video!

Lately

2009-07-10T10:11:00.001-04:00

So I've had a love/hate relationship lately with the ole blog. Well maybe not so much love/hate. Maybe more like love/indifference. Add to that the fact that I just wrote a post only to have my computer start doing crazy things and Live Writer closed down before I saved it and you've got me wanting to throw my computer across the room.

Ok, maybe it is love/hate with the computer.

I really wanted to pass along a link I found yesterday on JMom's blog. I took the time to watch the video and I'm telling you, TAKE THE TIME. It's the site of a wife and mom who recently passed away from cancer. The video is her talking to a group at her church a few months ago. It is inspiring and encouraging and just amazing. I can't even tell you how blessed I was to watch it. Just go.

"Cancer does not define me. Neither does being a wife or a mother. All these things are part of who I am but they do not define me. What defines me is my relationship with Jesus."---Rachel Barkey

A little quiz

2009-06-25T15:18:00.002-04:00

I REALLY need some help on the blog front. I saw this on Nicki's Facebook page, so I thought I'd play along. I know. The excitement is palpable.

1. What bill do you hate paying the most?
Doctor/hospital/radiology bills from Daniel's ER visit last month. I mean, what in the world do we have insurance for??

2. Do you miss being a child?
Not really

3. Chore you hate the most?
Emptying the dishwasher. It makes me love Daniel even more when he does it for me.

4. Where was the last place you had a romantic dinner?

I think the fact that I can't remember means it's time for a date night.

5. If you could go back and change one thing what would it be?
Some stupid choices about boys to date in college.

6. Name of your first grade teacher?
Mrs. Tucker

7.What do you really want to be doing right now?
Talking to my husband.

8. What did you want to be when you grew up?
A teacher and a mommy (And now I'm both!)

9. How many colleges did you attend?
Just one. Western Carolina University---Go Cats!

10.Why did you choose the shirt that you have on right now?
It's comfy and it was sitting on my chair in my room.

11. What are your thoughts on gas prices?
I hope they don't go as high as last year.

12. First thought when the alarm went off this morning?
No alarm this morning. Yay!

13. Last thought before going to sleep last night?
Only 4 more days....

14. What famous person would you like to have dinner with?
Not sure. Maybe Beth Moore.

15. Have you ever crashed your vehicle?
Unfortunately yes.

16. If you didn't have to work, would you volunteer?
I don't have to work right now (well except with the kids and in our house and yes that IS work), and don't volunteer but am getting ready to start.

17. Get up early or sleep in?
Both but mostly sleep in. So glad my kids can get their own breakfast!

18. What is your favorite cartoon character?
Probably Jerry from Tom and Jerry. He always makes me laugh.

19. Favorite thing to do at night with your guy or girl?
That's really none of your business....

20. When did you first start feeling old?
When I realized my grays wouldn't color anymore.

21. Favorite lunch meat?
Turkey

22. What do you get every time you go into Wal-Mart?
Not EVERY time, but a Dr. Pepper

23. Do you think marriage is an outdated ritual?
No

24. Favorite movie you wouldn't want anyone to find out about?
Can't Buy Me Love (and now you know)

25. What's your favorite drink?
Dr. Pepper or sweet tea with fresh lemon

26. Who from high school would you like to run in to?
Ashleigh (it's been too long this time!)

27. What radio station is your car radio tuned to right now?
91.9

28. Sopranos or Desperate Housewives?
neither

29. Worst relationship mistake that you wish you could take back?

See #5
30. Do you like the person that sits directly across from you at work?
Love them both

31. Have you ever had to use a fire extinguisher for its intended purposes?
No

32. Last book you finished reading?
Between Sundays by Karen Kingsbury

33. Do you have a teddy bear?
No

34. Strangest place you have ever brushed your teeth?
In Cuba and Brazil with bottled water. Or on an airplane.

35. Do you go to church?
Yes

36. How old are you?
36!

Scripture Memory - Verse 12!!

2009-06-19T12:04:00.001-04:00

Well obviously I have led a very exciting and blog-worthy life the last 2 weeks! Actually we had a fantastic time with family at the beach. I didn't take a ton of pictures though so there's not much photographic evidence to share.

Also, I have had lots of opportunity to reflect on my last verse.

"Cast all your anxiety on Him for He cares for you." 1 Peter 5:7

The time for verse 12 really snuck up on me! What with all the reading and playing in the sand and swimming in the pool and playing fifty-seven games of Uno a day.

So as I try to recover from my post-beach slump, I'll be memorizing this:

"So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live in Him, rooted and built up in Him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness." Colossians 2:6-7 (NIV)

Here's one little nugget for you to enjoy:

Ok, ok, one more:

Scripture Memory - Verse 11

2009-06-02T22:09:00.001-04:00

This is going to be short and sweet. I'm at the beach and using Wi-Fi at a little snack bar. And really, who wants to be blogging when everybody around you is eating big cones of ice cream and you forgot your wallet? I've got to get out of here!!

"Show me your ways, O Lord, teach me your paths. Guide me in your truth and teach me. For you are God my Savior and my hope is in you all day long." Psalm 25:4-5

My next one is short and sweet, just like this post!

"Cast all your anxiety on Him for He cares for you." 1 Peter 5:7(NIV)

I've known this scripture but not the address for a long time, although I think I always knew it as "cast all your cares". The word anxiety holds a whole new meaning for me in this verse. I can get a ~~little~~ lot anxious at times, so I'm going to be saying this frequently I think.

So I'll be scarce around the blogosphere for the next few weeks. Don't miss me too much!! haha

38 Things

2009-05-28T19:05:00.001-04:00

I saw this on Meredith's blog and goodness, it has been forever since I've blogged. The "38" doesn't quite have the significance to me as it does to Mer, but I'll play along.

1. What color is your toothbrush? ...Red and white

2. Name one person who made you smile today .... Hayes, when he decided to give some toys to a yard sale fundraiser we're contributing to.

3. What were you doing at 8 am this morning? .... My quiet time in my room

4. What were you doing 45 minutes ago?....Getting Pioneer Woman's Chicken Spaghetti ready to put in the oven (which, oh my word, smells SOOO good right now!)

5. What is your favorite candy bar? .... Kit Kat (Gimme a break, gimme a break....)

6. Have you ever met a famous person? ... yes

7. What is the last thing you said aloud? ...."Honey, you can change your mind if you want to." (To Rebecca about a toy she decided to give to the yard sale and then freak out a little about it later.)

8. What is your favorite ice cream flavor? ....chocolate, just plain chocolate

9. What was the last thing you had to drink? ... Cherry 7-Up

10. What was the last thing you ate?..... chocolate chip cookie dough

11. Have you bought any new clothing items this week?... no

12. The last sporting event you watched? ... Carolina Hurricanes game

13. What is your favorite flavor of popcorn? ... caramel corn

14. Who is the last person you sent a text message too?... probably Faith

15. Ever go camping?.... yes, but I am not a fan.

16. Do you go to church every Sunday? ... Yes. Well there are times when I'm sick or out of town.....

17. Do you have a tan?... Not much of one yet. But this time next week I'll have a pretty good one. (Beach bound on Sunday, woohoo!)

18. Do you prefer Chinese food over pizza? ... I'm with Meredith---yes, if it's PF Chang's or Pei Wei

19. Do you drink your soda with a straw? ... If I'm at a fast food type restaurant.

20. What are you doing tomorrow? ... laundry, start packing for vacation, and maybe take the kids to outdoor movie tomorrow night

21. What color is your watch?.... silver

22. What do you think of when you hear Australia? ... how we almost moved there....

23. Do you go in at a fast food place or just hit the drive thru?.... Usually go in

24. What is your favorite number? ... I don't think I have one.

25. Who's the last person you talked to on the phone? ... Sheila

26. Biggest annoyance right now? ... Children not obeying

27. Last song listened to?.... "I Will Rise" by Chris Tomlin

28. Do you have a maid service clean your house?...nope

29. Favorite pair of shoes you wear all the time? .... Right now, my Yellow Box flip flops.

30. Are you jealous of anyone? ... no

31. Is anyone jealous of you? ... Oh I hope not

32. Do you love anyone?..... oh yes

33. Do you hate anyone that you know right now? ... No.

34. Do you use the word 'hello' daily? ... answering the phone or in a sarcastic way "he-LLO!"

35. What color is your car? ... red

36. Do you like cats? ... Not really

37. Have you ever been to Six Flags? ... once to the one in Georgia

38. How did you get your worst scar(s)? ... had a mole removed on my shoulder and it left a rather large scar for the size of the mole. Exciting, I know. OH! I do have a nice one on my head from a car wreck but the only person who ever sees it is my hair stylist.

Gone, but not forgotten....

2009-05-21T11:30:00.001-04:00

So, email is checked, blogs are read, (It's called priorities, people!), bathrooms are cleaned, clothes are washing, and hot tea is made. And it's not even....ok never mind what time it is since I still have my pj's on.

And why is this blog worthy, you may ask. Because for the next few days, I am kid-less. No kids. No maternal responsibilities.

Well, except for washing their clothes, cleaning their bathroom, and maybe going through all their toys and throwing away all the JUNK.

And no, that won't lead to one bit of drama come Monday.

Both kids are visiting their grandparents for a long weekend. This is always a fun time for them. Probably a tiring time for the in-laws, but what can I say? They asked for it.

Becca will get to go to her Aunt Cissy's 2nd grade classroom---always an exciting day for her. She's gone multiple times over the last few years and always enjoys seeing how other kids "do school."

While she's at school, Hayes will get lots of alone time with Granddaddy probably. There will be endless Candyland games. And DAYS of playing with old Star Wars toys. Daniel found his 30 year old Millineum Falcon and X-wing Fighter (look at me sounding like I know what I'm talking about) the last time we were there. Hayes has been dying to play with them again.

So who's laughing at me that on my "day off," I'm blogging about my kids?

Seriously though, I love hanging out with my kids and I know I'm going to miss their sweet little faces.

You know, just after I run errands alone, get a pedicure, eat what/where I want to for lunch (when I want to eat), and bask in the quietness that is my house.

Little knuckleheads.

American Idol Finale

2009-05-19T21:31:00.001-04:00

I'm so excited that I get to watch the finale live tonight! I've missed the last few weeks and had to watch either really late or the next day.

There's been lots of talk, at least in my little circle of the world, about Idol tonight and we're all pretty much Kris fans. Unsure if he can win it, but fans none the less.

Well, Paula's been tanning and Simon doesn't have on a T-shirt!! It must be a special night. There should be lots of celebrities in the audience too, so I'll be giving them shout outs I'm sure.

Adam goes first tonight. Ooo, Kara's co-written a song for them. Very interesting.

Adam's parents seem very normal. That's all I have to say about that. He's singing "Mad World" first. Oh, he's just so dramatic with the smoke and weird lights. I am so thankful that there's not screaming in this one. He does have a great voice when he's not screaming. And it's a lovefest for the judges, except for the coat for Simon. Big surprise.

Anthony Hopkins! Fava beans!

Seriously are Kris Allen's parents not the cutest?? Kris is doing "Ain't No Sunshine". I loved this performance the first time around and I'm SO glad he picked it. Loved it again!! Ooo Simon's clapping! I think that's a good sign. Wow, it's a lovefest for Kris too! Didn't really expect that.

Simon Fuller picked "Change Is Gonna Come" for Adam. He changed into a shiny suit for this one. That reminds me of all the suits and wacked out ties from the Bachelorette last night. Was anybody else bothered by all the bad ties? And we won't even talk about the one guy's Member's Only jacket. Oh sorry. I just heard Adam start screaming and remembered what I was doing. I don't really know what else to say. He screams. Every song (except "Mad World" oddly enough) sounds the same. And I'm not a fan. The end. Oh seriously I'm afraid Paula's going to start throwing clothing items at Adam.

Katie and Suri!!

Producer pick is "What's Going On" for Kris. Good pick for him. I like acoustic guitar Kris. I disagree with Randy. That performance is Who He Is. It shows what kind of artist he is and will be. Anything's going to seem "light" after Mr. Theatrical. I don't think it has anything to do with The Night.

Now they sing some song Kara wrote, right? This should be good. I mean how different will these two make it? It could be like 2 different songs totally.

"No Boundaries" is the song. Adam's up first. Well I'm not loving this song. Don't know if it's the song or the singer. I can't really understand the lyrics. It's definitely not his best performance by a long shot. Of course Kara likes it. Simon took the easy way out and didn't even judge the performance. Apparently he didn't like the song though. Funny.

Let's see Kris's take on it. I'm assuming there won't be screaming. This isn't that good either. Let's just say it's the song, ok? It's a little high, isn't it? I think that's the worst I've heard him the whole competition. I hope the judges judge him on the whole season like they did Adam. And they did.

Well I think it's just a matter of how many Danny fans vote for Adam and how many vote for Kris. They are so different and I would think have way different fan bases and tonight's not going to change anybody's mind.

Certainly won't change mine!! Go Kris!!!

Scripture Memory - Verse 10!

2009-05-16T13:46:00.001-04:00

My word are the weeks just flying by or what? I am absolutely loving learning God's Word like this. And more than any other verse (well besides the one on condemnation) I have repeated this one out loud so many times!

"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but a spirit of love, and of power, and of a sound mind." 2 Timothy 1:7

Thank you Lord!!

I love the next verses. Special emphasis on "all day long!"

"Show me Your ways, O LORD, teach me Your paths; guide me in Your truth and teach me, for You are God my Savior, and my hope is in You ALL DAY LONG." Psalm 25:4-5 (NIV)

I love that His mercies are new every MORNING, but Praise God my hope can be in Him all DAY LONG!! Can I get an AMEN?

10 Years!!

2009-05-15T08:26:00.001-04:00

Ten years ago today I was waking up as a single lady for the last time. My best friend Ashleigh had spent the night with me at my townhouse. We didn't really do anything exciting that morning. Just got burgers from our favorite local joint for lunch. I'm pretty sure I was too nervous to eat it though. I remember we laid out in the sun on my deck for a little while and talked.

I did my own hair and make-up, so no last minute appointments or anything. My groom was playing golf with my dad, his dad, and our brothers. And maybe his friend Michael? I do remember learning later that Daniel hurt his back that day and no one wanted to tell me about it. (If you're my Facebook friend, this kind of thing seems to happen a lot to my husband, huh?)

In some ways it seems like it was just yesterday. But then when I see those glasses on Daniel, I realize that it has been a while!

In 10 years, we've gotten married, moved twice, joined a new church, become a family of 3, lost family members, gained 3 sisters-in-law, become a family of 4, gained 3 nephews, started homeschooling, gone on multiple mission trips, gone to Hawaii, lived part time in FL, changed churches, and made some wonderful forever friends.

We've had some absolutely awesome times and some very hard, trying times. And all those days in between. It's called Life, right?

And I'm so blessed to spend mine with the one that God brought into my life when I was just a silly little 13 year old. I love you honey!!

Here's a few more pics:

Happy Anniversary to my sweetie!!

American Idol - Top 3!!!

2009-05-12T21:09:00.001-04:00

Can I get a What What??!! Top 3!!! I'm way more excited about this season than last. WAY MORE.

Awww, remember when the mayor would deliver a white envelope in front of the whole town with the judge's choice? We've come so far.

Danny's up first. Paula's choice for him is "Dance Little Sister". I liked it. And really, after watching Taylor Hicks for a whole season who would ever critique someone's dancing? Just sayin'. That was a great song for his voice. I love me some Danny and all but I think 3rd place is his for the taking.

Seriously I think Simon and Paula should just get together already. I mean they are just one pigtail pull short of a total elementary school romance.

Obviously Idol doesn't trust Kara to pick a song on her own. She and Randy picked "Apologize" for Kris. He's back on the piano. Haven't seen that in a while, have we? Good choice for him. Maybe these judges do know a thing or two. Loved it!! Ok I change my mind about the judges knowing anything. Does Kara just want it to be a Danny/Adam finale? I mean, she picked the dern song!

Simon picked, and apparently arranged, "One" for Adam. Dude, the judges are choosing amazing songs for these guys. I can't look at him when he's screaming and sticking his tongue out! My eyes! My eyes! (a la Phoebe Buffay) I mean, come on, it was a fantastic performance until he started licking the microphone and screaming and going all freaky freaky on us.

Danny's singing "You Are So Beautiful" for Round 2. It's a little s l o w. Vocals were ~~really good~~ MAD! Dawg! Great job, glasses boy!

Oh crap. Kris is singing Kanye West!!! "Heartless" I don't know Kanye music. I can't stand him! Is this a good choice??? I'm betting this is NOT how Kanye sings this song. Ok, seriously I loved it. I don't care WHO sang it before Kris. Arms up yelling "YEAH" at Randy's comment! Yeah baby, yeah!!! I'm totally voting tonight. (Don't judge. No, I haven't voted this season.)

Big surprise, Adam's singing Aerosmith, "Crying." See, if he'd just stay in that range he's in at the beginning, I might be able to handle it. But there he goes in that falsetto screaming, trying to eat the mic. Oh whatever. He's a performer, headed to Broadway or something.

I'm voting already and getting busy signals for Kris. Yay!

He Knows

2009-05-10T06:00:00.002-04:00

Last year, I dedicated my Mother's Day blog post to, well, my mom. And I would like to say "Happy Mother's Day, Mom!! See you soon!"

But this year I wanted to dedicate it to my friends. My friends who so desperately want to be a mom and/or have had difficulty in becoming one. Some of you have been very open about it. Others have kept it quiet. But you know that I know who you are and that more importantly, God knows who you are.

He knows your situation. He knows your thoughts and your desires. He sees you when you are disappointed yet again. He sees you when you go the long way around in Target just to avoid the baby section. Or when you just can't make it to a baby shower. He's there when you discuss options and medicines and procedures until you just don't even want to say the words one more time. Even if no one else does, He remembers difficult birthdays and due dates that would have been.

I love you and I'm so sorry you're in this situation. And I know Mother's Day is beyond difficult for some of you. Church might be the last place you want to be. And that's ok. Because you know as well as I do that God isn't in a building. We can't put Him in a box and we certainly can't put four walls around Him.

So you spend this day however you need to. Whether it's in corporate worship or quiet solitude. Either way, He's there.

Because He hears. And He cares.

He knows.

For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11

American Idol - Thunderstorm Week

2009-05-06T14:30:00.001-04:00

Blasted thunderstorms. Knocked out our satellite. Still not up and I've been on the phone with a nice guy in who knows where for 20 minutes.

Apparently our satellite moved during the storm and now only the receiver upstairs works. The one WITHOUT the DVR.

And guess when they can come out to look at it.

Monday. Monday!!!!! As in 5 days from now.

So I missed Idol last night and the only info I have is from BooMama's recap and it was delightful. I know. I could watch it on YouTube, but you know, I've got clothes to wash and bathrooms to clean.

Cause we're headed to the beach this weekend. Yay!!! And in preparation I went back to my weight lifting class today. Because you know it's totally possible to get a six packed, swim suit ready bod in 3 days.

So far, I can barely lift my arms to reset the satellite receiver, so YAY! ALMOST THERE!

Hopefully I'll be back in the game for next week's TOP THREE!!! Also known as Kris, Danny, and Allison.

Hey, a girl can dream.

Not Me! Monday

2009-05-04T12:32:00.004-04:00

Yay! MckMama and her little McMuffin are home and settling back in after their whirlwind stays in 2 hospitals in 2 states! She's kicking off her famous Not Me! Mondays again and I thought I'd participate.

This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week.

I most certainly did not sit my kids in front of the TV recently to watch an American Idol that I'd missed the night before. And I did not consider it Music Appreciation and count it as school. Nope, not me!

I also did not sneak a picture of a girl's fancy heels at a golf tournament just so I could blog about it. Who does that?

AND I did NOT video my son trying to wink and make the little clicking sound with the sole purpose of sharing it with the whole internet (and my husband who wasn't home). I'd never do that! Who uses their kids for a laugh like that?

And finally I absolutely did not wash my kids' face, hands, and feet in the bathroom sink and consider it a bath since it was not 10pm and we had not kept them out way past their bedtimes. Because they were not Very Stinky Children. And we had NOT sacrificed bath and bedtimes just to go out to eat with our home group (people who we are NOT growing to love more and more as each week passes). Nope, not us!!

Golf and celebrities and such

2009-05-02T19:14:00.001-04:00

These's a big golf tournament in our city this week.

Last year, when it was still called the Wachovia, I worked at it 2 days. This year, I was just a spectator. Much better.

We took the kids on the Pro/Am day and walked around for one or five hours.

We saw the mayor.

And Tiger Woods....

who was playing with Peyton Manning....

who hit one very near us.

Looks like they're becoming buddies.

We also saw Nascar driver Jimmie Johnson. (Becca took this)

And here's Nascar driver Jimmie Johnson ~~bribing~~ giving something to a little boy he hit in the head.

Chris Berman, ESPN guy (Yes, he wore that to play)

He actually spent so much time talking and cutting up that right after I took this the Pro he was playing with walking down there and pulled him back up to the tee box. Literally pulled him by his shirt. Pretty funny.

Dr. J (Dude is HUGE)

Here's what I wore all day.

Ok, so I took this photo on the sly, but can you believe that? There was a lot of what-were-you-thinking outfits out there.

And while I do love to walk around and see famous people hit the little white ball, THIS is really why I like to go to the Quail Hollow:

Seriously, who lives like that?

Scripture Memory - Verse 9

2009-05-01T15:23:00.001-04:00

These weeks are just flying by! It's already time to pick another one!

Time to test myself:

Let us then come before the throne of grace with confidence so that we can receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. Hebrews 4:16

For this next verse, I'm switching translations. I know you're shocked. I like the KJV and NKJV of this verse since it uses the word "fear" instead of "timidity."

Here it is:

"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind." 2 Timothy 1:7 (NKJV)

Now I have to go write it on the plate!

American Idol - Top 5

2009-04-28T21:06:00.001-04:00

This. Is. American Idol. Rat Pack style.

And everybody's sporting suits. Some a little, ahem, brighter than others.

And either it's Prom Night for the girl judges or they're dressing for the genre. Gotta give it up for a girl who likes a theme.

AND the mentor is....Jamie Foxx? Really, Idol? Really? Couldn't get Michael Buble, huh?

Kris - "The Way You Look Tonight" Oh bless it. These kids today just don't wear the tie clips, do they? Wow, Jamie Foxx is really complimentary of Kris. I think this song fits his voice and style so well. Swoon. Just sayin'. In it to WIN it, dawg!

Allison - "Someone To Watch Over Me" Happy birthday!! Ok, I might have to take back my initial reaction to Foxx. He's got some good advice. She knocked that out of the park. Although I think I'd like her, just ONE WEEK, to please sing something YOUNG. Not sure what that would have been this week, but still. And I'd like to ask Simon what 17 year old do you know that has the kind of confidence he's talking about? Or maybe that's just me channeling my inner 17 yr old. Never mind.

Matt - "My Funny Valentine" Ok, so if anybody could kick this theme's hiney, it's Matt. I figured he'd be at the piano where he's more comfortable. Might be a mistake. Not the strongest voice in the bunch. I'm not crazy about it. Is he pitchy? I don't know, but I'm very surprised at Simon's critique.

I really want some chocolate right now. Think I could talk Daniel into going to get Frosty's?

Danny - "Come Rain or Come Shine" Jamie's all in Danny's personal space. All up in his GRILL. That some kind of weird acting technique? How about some French cuffs and cuff links. And a pocket square. I think this is one of my favorite performances of his. I'd stand up and clap if I didn't have this dern laptop on my lap. (Burning the tar out of my thighs, I might add.) Bravo, buddy! Bravo! Hey! I understood everything Paula said! STELLAR!

He's making fruit smoothies instead. Oh well.

Adam - "Feeling Good" Can we just have ONE WEEK WITHOUT ALL THE SCREAMING? Ok, I'm expecting him to start stripping. Tell me you didn't think that when he's walking down the steps. Sorry. Anyway, I know he has a huge audience and he'll probably win, yada yada yada. Really, Randy? A little theatrical and dramatic? And Paula. I'm sure Michael Phelps loved that comparison. Or maybe he needs the positive press right now.

My fave of the night--- Danny and Kris

In trouble---Matt.

Go over to BooMama's to see other Idol recaps.

American Idol - Top 7 (again)

2009-04-22T10:59:00.001-04:00

It's Wednesday morning and I'm just now watching! Is this even worth doing? I haven't seen any other re-caps though, so we'll pretend it's Tues night. Man, I feel incredibly rested for 8 pm.

Disco Night! Get out your platforms, ladies!

Lil - "I'm Every Woman" Chaka! Chaka Chan Chaka! It's time for her to go. I'm sorry. The vocals just aren't there. It seems all over the place to me. Why oh why is she talking? Shut up already!

Kris - "She Works Hard For the Money" Hey they aren't doing videos this week. And they are letting all the judges talk. That is a crazy arrangement. I like it! Oh goodness I loved that! It was cool and new and wow! Ready for the big time, dawg!!!

Paula is just so weird.

Danny - "September" It's hard to listen to that song without dancing a little, ya know? As evidenced by my 4 yr old right now. I think it was good. Vocals were pretty good and it was a great performance.

Allison - "Looking for Some Hot Stuff" I was getting ready to comment on her outfit, but my daughter walked in the room and said "Whoa." I think that says it right there. I'm not sure I liked that arrangement. Her vocals are always great, but I didn't really like that. Hey Dawg agrees with me.

Looks like taking out the videos is working. They're half way through the show and have 3 more performances. Good call.

Adam - "If I Can't Have You" I don't want nobody, baby. I'm just sayin'. Ok that's a very interesting arrangement. Totally not how I'm singing it right now. And of course we have the token screeching in the middle. I'm just not a fan, in case you didn't know. Oh gracious, Paula gives me a headache. All that talk about him tearing out his heart and leaving it on the stage. Maybe a teeny dramatic.

Matt - "Stayin' Alive" There were some parts that made me cringe, but overall I liked it. I like his cool vibe, his JT-ness. I agree with Simon that he can't win it, but I like him and think he's going to make some great music.

Anoop - "Dim All The Lights" Ooo what about that 'stache? Not sure I like the song choice. He's sounding a little pitchy. Oh dude, that last note. Yikes.

Kris is my favorite tonight. Lil and Anoop are in trouble.

Gotta go!

Scripture Memory Challenge - Verse 8

2009-04-15T14:22:00.001-04:00

I am really loving this scripture memory challenge. I've started writing my verses on our white decorative plate by the sink. And considering how much time I spend there, I should seriously have my new one memorized by this evening. ha! (Thanks for the idea, Deidre!)

And now I will astound you with my memory:

"Be joyful always, pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus" 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Ta-da! You'll just have to trust me that I typed that from memory. And I did, except that I left out "always". Just being real.

So next time's verse is this:

^"Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need." Hebrews 4:16

Ready, set, memorize!!

American Idol - Top 7

2009-04-14T21:18:00.002-04:00

So I totally missed blogging last week. I didn't get to watch until Wednesday and by then, well, what's the point? I read lots of re-caps and honestly, right now I can't really remember anything that happened. Except that everybody missed Adam's performance because the judges (hello, Paula) were long-winded and they went long and THAT'S WHAT WE GET FOR DEPENDING ON A DVR.

Luckily my sweet husband was watching and recorded Fringe so that I could see Adam (um, thanks?) without scouring YouTube.

Tonight the theme is Songs From Movies and the mentor is, naturally, Quentin Tarantino. Seriously? What does he know from music? He makes movies and movies have music, therefore....he knows music. Okaaaay.

Nice. They are only letting 2 judges talk per contestant. We'll see how that goes.

Allison Iraheta - "I Don't Want To Miss A Thing" I think this is a good choice for her. Great, great way to start the night. I loved it. Knocked it out of the PARK!

Anoop Desai - "(Everything I Do) I Do It For You" Quentin Tarantino giving him singing advice is seriously giving me a twitch. Oh goodness, I'm 18 again. Love me some Bryan Adams. I liked it. I really like his voice. Not sure what is up with that jacket though.

Adam Lambert - "Born To Be Wild" Back to rocker mode. I gotta hand it to him, that was a star performance right there. And you know how bad it hurts to say that, right?

They really just shouldn't let Paula talk. Simon, however, cracks me up.

Matt Giraud - "Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman" This seems like it will be a good song for him. I think I liked it better when it was just him and the piano. Ooo, that part near the end when his voice squeaked was bad and just off. Yikes, he might be in trouble this week.

Why is Simon making weird faces while Kara is talking? Is he 7?

Danny Gokey - "Endless Love" Ok, great, now I'm going to be watching his hands. I thought it was ok. A little rough in places actually. AND he lost his glasses. What's wrong with the world?

Oh the bright side, Michael and Lincoln are coming back FRIDAY! Glory!

Kris Allen - "Falling Slowly" It started out, um, slowly, but I really think he can do no wrong. I just love him. Wouldn't it be great if he sang some Chris Tomlin one night? Simon's head might explode.

Oh my word. Lil is singing "The Rose". WHO in the world is advising her? She is just singing herself right out of the competition.

Lil Rounds - "The Rose" To quote my sister-in-law, I just don't think she's as good a singer as she thinks she is. She's pitchy and she's putting in too many riffs and changing the melody too much. How's that for some opinions?

In trouble this week: Lil and Matt

Next week, Songs About Animals with mentor, Lassie. Y'all come!

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*Edited to Add: Y'all I just read this post about Idol and it totally cracked me up. Girlfriend is hilarious!!

A day late, but still.....

2009-04-09T11:03:00.001-04:00

A few of the blogs I read participated in this at It's Almost Naptime yesterday. I thought it was a great idea! To just brag on my kids a little. Because let's face it, we tend to dwell on all the things that drive us nuts daily. I, for one, am way better at fussing at them or about them than praising and bragging on them. Just being real here.

So, let's commence with the bragging!!

Here's Becca.

The firstborn. Gorgeous blue eyes, long eyelashes. Thoughtful, sweet, quiet, tender heart, and helpful. She loves to draw, do math, and play sports. Her reading has improved by leaps and bounds in the last year and she enjoys it.

She's a loyal friend. She still misses her little buddy who moved away 2 years ago. I find little notes on her school work like "I love my brother" or "I miss Hailey"(the dog).

She remembers lines from movies and quotes them at random times. And she wants to be dentist when she grows up.

And Hayes.

The baby. Sweet little smile, fantastic blue eyes. Funny, energetic, loving, and silly. He's all boy. Loves cars, trucks, balls, video games, and just running around. He's great at coloring, loves to write his name, and likes to be read to.

It might take him a little while to warm up to you, especially adults, but once you're his friend, he'll love you forever. He likes for his daddy to carry him on his shoulders. And he's gotten quite snuggly lately and I love that!

Hayes is SO ready to play sports it's not even funny. He still has another year before he can play but he is having fun practicing. He can hit a ball like nobody's business and has really good control of a soccer ball for a 4 yr old. But maybe I'm biased. We shall see!

Ok, brag party is over! I'm off to squeeze my kids and smother them with kisses!!

Date Night

2009-04-03T13:25:00.002-04:00

What do you get when you take Chris Tomlin, add Israel Houghton, a little Christy Nockels, and top it off with a cheeseburger and cherry-lemon-sprite from South 21?

Well just the best date night ever, that's what!

It was the greatest night of praise and worship! If you don't know who Israel Houghton is, he's basically the guy who has written and recorded every praise and worship song you've sung in church in the past 10 years. Does "Friend of God" ring a bell? What about "Here I Am to Worship"? "Lord You Are Good"? Yeah, that guy.

And Christy Nockels sang backup for Chris Tomlin! So cool. And then he and his band played for her to sing her newest single, "Life Light Up". And he didn't just go backstage for a rest while his band played for her either. Dude rocked the guitar! You can download the single here. It's really good.

So thanks to my husband, who planned the night, (and a sweet babysitter), we had an awesome time. Thanks honey!!

*Edited to add: (Anybody else think Chris Tomlin looks like Michael J. Fox?)

Scripture Memory, Verse 7

2009-04-02T12:15:00.001-04:00

I picked out my verse for the next 2 weeks yesterday and even wrote it in my notebook but never got around to posting about it. It's just par for the course lately around here. As I sit in my pj's at noon. Sigh.

Here's the verse I've been working on:

"The Lord your God is with you, He is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, He will quiet you with His love. He will rejoice over you with singing." Zephaniah 3:17

I've struggled with the exact wording on this one for some reason. But I get the overall meaning of the verse and I don't want to be all legalistic. I'm going to keep working on this one in addition to my new one. Especially the "quiet you with His love" part. Sometimes I just need to be quieted by Him.

My new verse:

¹⁶Be joyful always; ¹⁷pray continually; ¹⁸give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus."

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

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If you've been praying for Jennifer and Stellan, you'll want to check this out. Her local news channel did an interview and story on them earlier this week.

American Idol - Top 9

2009-03-31T21:52:00.001-04:00

Here I sit, running behind again, snacking on cinnamon Teddy Grahams left over from Becca's softball game tonight. (Which they WON by the way. My baby was 3 for 3! Totally gets ALL her athletic ability from her daddy and I couldn't be more proud.)

It's Popular Download Week. Also known as A Way To Show Ryan At His Other Job.

Anoop Desai - "Caught Up" Vocals aren't great, Dawg. The first part is not that good for me. He's performing well, working the crowd. He's getting a little 'tude with the judges.

Paula's hair is looking a little flat again. I bet my friend Faith is loving that.

Megan Joy - "Turn Your Lights Down Low" A little Bob Marley action. Not sure how I feel about this. Gracious could she HAVE more going on with the necklaces and the top? She just looks like she doesn't know what to do on stage. I'm just not digging her anymore. I totally agree with Simon on this. It was monotonous.

Danny Gokey - "What Hurts the Most" Good song choice for him. I like this. Great job. He's BACK!! I'd buy that in a hot minute!

Allison Iraheta - "Don't Speak" Did she just say she GREW UP listening to No Doubt? Oh bless it. What in the world is up with that hair? I think No Doubt is a good move for her. She screaming a little, but is it rocker screaming or just screaming?

Scott MacIntyre - "Just the Way You Are" Ok I admit I heard this earlier live when I was putting kids to bed and I'm going to listen to it again. I love that it's just him and the piano. Fabulous. It was fabulous. ;) And seriously. What about that hair! At least they didn't put him in pink pants again.

Matt Giraud - "You Found Me" Really who could believe he was in the botton 3 last week? Oooo a little keyboard in the audience action. Oh goodness the kids around him trying to clap is distracting me. Get it together people or just STOP IT! I think he did a good job. But who are we kidding? I could barely pay attention. The judges REALLY didn't like it. Yikes.

Lil Rounds - "I Surrender" I can't think how this song goes. Surely a Celine song has some BIG moments. Oh, I really like her hair! Well I didn't love it. There were definitely a few big note moments but I'm not so sure about it.

Adam Lambert - "Play That Funky Music" What was that little walk he was doing? Elvis hair is back. Ok, great performance. And you don't know how bad it hurt to type that last sentence. Did Paula just put him in a category with Mick Jagger and Steven Tyler?

Mandisa!!

Kris Allen - "Ain't No Sunshine" I like this arrangement. I LOVE IT! I'm pretty sure I'd buy anything he sings. Woo Hoo!!!!

My faves tonight are Kris, Danny, and Allison. I think Megan is going home.

The Osbournes are next. Just another sign that Jesus is coming back SOON, people.

Missions and Fundraising

2009-03-28T15:57:00.002-04:00

If you've been reading my blog for more than 5 months (or if you know me in real life!), you know I've been on a few mission trips to Brazil in the past year and a half.

And I'm so excited because WE'RE GOING BACK!!!!

Daniel has the opportunity to go on a vision trip to the Amazon in June. Y'all, I'm talking canoes, tents, and fishing for piranhas. So yes, we have a little bit of crazy up in here!

Now in September, the saner of the two of us is going back to Solidao. Well, he's going too because he's LEADING the trip. See, I told you. CRAZY.

AND we are super excited that our friends Chad and Faith have finally decided to go with us! We've been bugging them to go since we went the first time, so I'm pretty sure they're only going so we'll get off their backs. Nah, actually Faith wrote a great post today all about why they are REALLY going.

Of course the funding for these trips is always an issue. We're starting fundraising early this time, as in on April 16!! You can go here to find out about World Outback Ministries and the golf tournament fundraiser.

More than anything, we covet your prayers. We can't and don't want to go without being bathed in prayer. You can pray for the team as it comes together, travel, health, opportunities for sharing the gospel, and the people in the villages that we'll visit.

Right here's what it's all about.

Out of the mouths....

2009-03-26T18:58:00.001-04:00

I got this idea from Jmom at Lots of Scotts weeks ago and more recently from my hometown friend Kendra (among many others). I asked the kids these questions separately and am just now getting around to posting it.

Hayes is 4 (on Monday) and Rebecca is 8.

1. What is something Mom always says to you?
Hayes "I love you"

Rebecca "get dressed we're going to the gym" (hahahaha)

2. What makes Mom happy?

H "loving her"

R "if I obey you"

3. What makes Mom sad?
H "breaking her necklace that Mimi gave her"

R "if I disobey you"

4. How does your Mom make you laugh?
H "I don't know"

R "tickle me"

5. What was your Mom like as a child?
H "good or bad"

R "same as me"

6. How old is your Mom? (36)
H "28"

R "26"

7. How tall is your Mom?
H "ummm about 13 inches"

R "maybe 5 feet taller than me?"

8. What is her favorite thing to do?
H "snuggle with me"

R "go shopping"

9. What does your Mom do when you're not around?
H "laugh"

R "watch TV and go to sleep and play the computer"

10. If your Mom becomes famous, what will it be for?
H "I don't know Mom!"

R "singing" (seriously laughed out loud at that one!)

11. What is your Mom really good at?
H "playing games"

R "making chicken pie"

12. What is your Mom not very good at?
H "tic tac toe"

R "video games"

13. What does your Mom do for a job?
H "keeping us"

R "take care of me and Hayes, and the house"

14.What is your Mom's favorite food?
H "chicken pie" (can you tell we just had chicken pie?)

R "chocolate rice cereal"

15.What makes you proud of your Mom?
H "snuggle with you"

R "when she cooks good food"

16. If your Mom were a cartoon character, who would she be?
H "Sponge Bob Squarepants. We don't watch that show!" (and no, we don't)

R "Wendy" (from Peter Pan)

17. What do you and your Mom do together?
H "read my Bible"

R "go shopping and buy birthday presents"

18. How are you and your Mom the same?
H "we're not the same! Boy and girl. "

R "we like the same food"

19. How are you and your Mom different?
H "Cause we're boy and girl!"

R "You're taller than me and you're older than me"

20. How do you know your Mom loves you?
H "cause you say it all of the time"

R "because she always makes our lunch and dinner"

21. What does your Mom like most about your dad?
H "lovin' on him" (heehee)

R "when he does stuff for you like when you were going to give Hayes a bath and Daddy said let me do it"

22. Where is your Mom's favorite place to go?
H "to Ikea"

R "the beach"

American Idol - Top 10

2009-03-25T22:59:00.001-04:00

Well, I'm getting a late start tonight. It's already 9:30 and I'm just watching. Bright side---- I get to fast forward through all the commercials AND Paula's comments so, you know, YAY!

Motown Week!

(We're trying to hang a ledge for pictures (from IKEA!) tonight as well. So who knows how this is going to go. I already have to pause it!)

Matt Giraud - "Let's Get it On" Ok is it just me or is he dressed a little geeky for this sexy song? I already saw this performance at my brother's earlier tonight, but I couldn't really hear it. Nobody can really compete with Marvin Gaye singing this, so it's good he's making it his own. I like the falsetto parts. Well done.

(Is anyone else as grossed out as I am over the Osbourne's new show? That guy kissing the grandma makes me gag.)

Kris Allen - "How Sweet It Is" I love me some Kris Allen and apparently so does Smokey Robinson. I'm seriously hating his shirt. That was reeeeallly good. I disagree with Simon about him needing to be conceited. There's a difference in believing in yourself and being conceited. Keep it real, Kris!

Scott MacIntyre - "You Can't Hurry Love" I'm not quoting my husband but there may have just been a comment about vision problems and those pants. Kind of weird song choice for a guy, but he's going to make it original I'm pretty sure. (Who's seeing Runaway Bride in their heads?) He's not the strongest voice of the competition but dude can play some piano. That was pretty good. Definite great performance, vocals pretty good. (Oh how funny was that about the pants! They didn't tell him they were pink until 10 min before! That's just wrong.)

Megan Joy - "For Once In My Life" I'm not so sure her voice is great for this song. I'm not loving it. Granted I was reading an email from my friend Ashleigh to Daniel while she was singing, but I didn't like it. And now apparently the judges aren't feeling it either. But man, girlfriend is flat out gorgeous.

Anoop Dawg Desai - "Ooo Baby Baby" He's gonna have to HIT those notes or it will be baaad. Sounds good to me but we all know I'm not a music genius. I liked it. Tough song and he did great. I must say I really like Kara this year as a coherent female voice on the panel.

(The picture ledge is hung! Yay! It looks so cool!)

Michael Sarver - "Ain't Too Proud To Beg" This song always makes me want to dance. It's hard to type and dance. That was ok. He's still at least 4th or 5th behind some of the other guys in my opinion.

Seriously what is up with Randy's sweater?

Lil Rounds - "Heat Wave" Well at least she's dressed for the genre this week. That pink prom dress for country week was killing me. I feel like she's screaming at me. She's got a great voice, but she's just yelling. It was just ok for me.

Adam Lambert - "The Tracks of My Tears" Oh what up with the hair? I fast forwarded through the beginning so I'm just seeing this. He doesn't even look like the same guy. Maybe he should have done that for the Johnny Cash song. Or Elvis week. I don't want to like him, I really don't, but that was great. Original and just awesome. Props to you, dude.

Danny Gokey - "Get Ready" He didn't take Smokey's advice. I still like it though. I usually agree with Simon but not on this one. They are rushing. They better not go late or my DVR will cut off!!!

Allison Iraheta - "Papa Was A Rollin' Stone" Good song choice for her voice. I'm thinking the performance of the night. That last note was outstanding. Maybe Simon and Paula should pay attention to the performances instead of drawing on each other. Ya think?

Ok, no time to proof this. I've got a load of clothes to fold and my bed is calling! Peace out!

Continue praying for Baby Stellan

2009-03-25T10:05:00.001-04:00

Baby Stellan is still struggling with SVT. He's having an echocardiogram to check heart function today. Keep on lifting him to the Throne!

Also, yesterday his mom Jennifer wrote the most amazing post. It is the most clear and real explanation of prayer I have ever heard. Go read it.

Pray for Stellan

2009-03-23T22:20:00.001-04:00

Little Stellan is sick and in the hospital again. Pray for MckMama's sweet little MckMuffin. Things are scary right now for them and they need God's mighty hand to touch little Stellan's heart. Go on over and give Jennifer some encouragement.

Giveaway Winner!!

2009-03-21T22:33:00.001-04:00

You all probably thought I was being a slacker about the giveaway, didn't you? Well, I was!

Not really. I left for the beach Thursday morning and just got home tonight. No kids, no men, and NO internet!

I went on a ladies trip with a crazy bunch of girls from our new church. Some old friends and some new ones and it was a blast!

So anyway, we did the drawing tonight (meaning I wrote the names down and Daniel drew one out while he was watching the Duke game). And the winner is.......

MiMi!!!!!

MiMi is my friend Faith's mom and probably if you read Faith's blog then you read MiMi's. She's a beautiful, sweet, godly lady and I'm blessed to know her in real life! AND she loves Starbucks!

Congrats MiMi! Hopefully I'll have the prize by tomorrow morning and bring it to you at church! haha!

Happy Blogaversary to Me!

2009-03-18T11:40:00.001-04:00

And only 3 days late! Can you believe I didn't even know it was my one year blogaversary? Only after I saw Faith's post on hers did I remember! We started our blogs on the same day actually.

A year ago we were on our 3rd month of traveling to Florida with Daniel for work. We were there for 2 weeks at a time, January through March. It was fun, stressful, lonely, and an adventure. We went to Disney, the beach, Spring Training, the aquarium, and the mall (A LOT!) The kids and I explored Clearwater and Tampa, found local parks and playgrounds, and every Chick-fil-a in the area.

Looking back, it was a really cool opportunity for our family and I learned a lot about myself in the process. And in the middle of it all, I decided to start a blog. After calls to my buddies Melissa (who already had a blog) and Faith, I figured it out and started to blog!

There were lots of sarcastic comments and teasing from my husband (you're shocked, I know!), but now he at least reads it and even lets me quote him!

This blogging thing is kind of an odd thing to do and has turned out to be way more fun than I thought it would be. I've met people I never would have otherwise and been challenged and encouraged and impressed by even people I already knew.

So I'm sure I should do a giveaway, right? I've never done one before! Oh, the pressure!

Ok, how about a Starbucks gift card? Anyone?? Just comment and I'll put your name in a hat and let one of my kids draw it out. Cause I'm oh-so-techy and that's how I roll!

(And don't think because you're my real life friend you can't enter the giveaway! I think you're about the only people who read this thing!)

American Idol - Top 11

2009-03-17T22:09:00.001-04:00

I'm back!! Last week I watched Idol in our nation's capitol at a viewing party at the White House with Barack and Michelle. Fun was had by all. Although I did have to call it a night when the Pres broke out in the Thriller dance. There's only so much a girl can take.

Ok, well, I WAS in DC and I did watch Idol. Hopefully I'll get around to doing a post on Homeschoolers Go To Washington soon.

Grand Ole Opry Week!! Yahoo!

Michael Sarver - "Ain't Going Down (Till the Sun Comes Up)" Love me some Garth Brooks y'all. I denied my love for country music all through high school and believe me, I was in the minority. I finally gave in in college and accepted my fate to love the music of my people. Ok, enough about me. Michael keeps saying he isn't a country singer, but who you kiddin' Texas boy? Probably not a great song choice overall but a good performance.

Let me say right here that talking back to the judges is one of my pet peeves. STOP. IT.

Allison Iraheta - "Blame It On Your Heart" Good song choice, fits her voice well. She's a great performer for such a young one. Is it just me or does she NOT sound 16? Daniel thinks she matched her jacket to her hair. Probably not an easy thing to do.

Kris Allen - "To Make You Feel My Love" (Hey, from Hope Floats, Faith!) Ok, before he starts, let me say I seriously like this guy. And I thought it was tacky when Simon said he shouldn't have brought out his wife yet. They're so cute! Now, I think he's singing this well and I love that it's a little different than Garth's. Unfortunately, he's been overshadowed by Danny and Adam so far. Maybe tonight that'll change. "Tender moments from my dawg Kris." Randy really has a way with words, doesn't he?

Lil Rounds - "Independence Day" Not loving the dress. Doesn't say 'country' to me. Definitely not her style of music but girl's got some pipes. The last half showed that off. Cracked me up when Simon called her "Little".

Adam Lambert - "Ring Of Fire" Ok, seriously that video of Adam and Randy was funny, awkward, and made my day. I don't really like Adam and I'm hating this song choice. I mean, do you really do THAT to a Johnny Cash song? Not loving it. I feel like the judges all want him to win and he can do no wrong. And now I love Simon. He's the only one up there with any sense.

Scott MacIntyre - "Wild Angels" That was pretty good. The beginning was a little slow for me but he picked it up at the end. And for the record I like him playing the piano.

The judges are arguing a lot tonight. I'm a little annoyed by that.

Alexis Grace - "Joleen" That was ok for me. Is she off a little? It sounds a little flat or sharp or something. Oh, I don't know. Let's see what the music people say. Ha! I was right!

So now we're just having all out conversations with the judges? Shut. It.

Danny Gokey - "Jesus Take the Wheel" Bless his heart, he's choking in front of Randy Travis. Hopefully he does better live. Not sure he should have picked a song so related to another Idol. He's rockin' it though. Not loving the white coat. Just sayin'. He's still my fave.

Seriously, it's like Simon and I are sharing a brain tonight.

Anoop "Dawg" Desai - "You're Always On My Mind" Two lines in and---Yo dawg! Anoop's back!!! I absolutely love that arrangement. LOVED IT! Yeah baby!

Megan Joy - "I Go Walking After Midnight" When did she become just Megan Joy? I'm not sure she's quite popular enough yet to drop her last name. I seriously don't think she can sing without doing that little dance move. Wouldn't have guessed she was sick. If I close my eyes so I don't see the tatoo or the dance, I like it.

Matt Giraud - "So Small" Y'all I'll admit it. I was not crazy about this season at first, but there are some great singers this year. Matt does not disappoint. Great job.

I can't pick a bottom 3. I can't even pick a top 3!

My favorite of the night was Anoop. Least fave was Adam.

What did you think?

Scripture Memory - Verse 6

2009-03-15T14:05:00.001-04:00

It's time to pick a new scripture to memorize for LPM's challenge.

Here's last time's:

"Since then we know what it is to fear the Lord, we try to persuade men. What we are in plain to God and I hope it is also plain to your conscience. " 2 Corinthians 5:11 (NIV)

For the next 2 weeks I'll be memorizing Zephaniah 3:17:

"The LORD your God is with you,
       he is mighty to save.
       He will take great delight in you,
       he will quiet you with his love,
       he will rejoice over you with singing."

I read that in my Jesus Calling book this week and I knew I needed to commit it to memory. It also makes me sing "Mighty to Save" every time I say it, so that's always good! Love that song!

Happy memorizing! (It's not to late to join in!!) Go here. There's gonna be a party at the end!!

It's Official. I'm old.

2009-03-13T21:21:00.001-04:00

I've just spent the last 5 days with 5 teenaged boys and 1 teenaged girl. And the verdict is.....I'm old.

I'm 36. And I really do realize that's not THAT old. And most days, I don't feel old at all. I actually still feel like I'm in my 20s.

But this week I found myself watching Kanye West on Idol and fussing at him for not pulling up his pants. I had never heard the song he was "singing" and felt very out of the loop.

Add that to the fact that said teenaged boys were laughing at the adults, (me included, whendidibecomeanadult?) for judging Kanye's clothing and song choices and you have a recipe for feeling like an old lady.

Oh and plus we totally watched hours of FOX News.

I have never felt more like my father. Have mercy. (No offense, Dad.)

Not me! Monday

2009-03-09T07:26:00.001-04:00

This is my first Not me! Monday post. I love reading MckMama's blog and these are especially entertaining. She's a wife and mom and she's just getting real and being honest. And cracking people up, one post at a time.

So here's what I ~~did~~ didn't do this week:

I certainly did not pay our car payment to the cell phone company last month. And I did not just realize it last night! And I did not get all red and sweaty telling my husband about it. Nope, not me!

I also did not leave food in a crock pot all day and then discover at about 5pm that it had quit working. Not me! And then I did not suggest Zaxby's for dinner.

Finally, I did not leave the hair clippers bag out on the counter to remind me to cut Hayes' hair and then not cut it for 2 days. Because I never forget to do things and NEVER leave sharp instruments within reach of little children. And that DID NOT result in my 3 yr old getting hold of the scissors and cutting a chunk out of his own hair! Nope, never happened!

Head on over to my charming kids to see what MckMama and everyone else has not been doing all week!

American Idol - Top 36 - Wild Card

2009-03-05T21:11:00.001-05:00

I didn't realize there was even a show tonight! And I had big plans to iron my new curtains while I watched Survivor and The Office. What to do, what to do?

And they better hope they put Tatiana at the end because if I have to start my night off listening to her drama I might just turn it on over to Survivor and then we'd have a very short post.

Oh look, she's NEXT TO LAST! And Anoop Dawg is last! So you know I totally have to watch until the end. Those sneaky little Idol people.

As I said on Facebook today, if Tatiana makes it to the Top 12 then AI is dead to me. That's it, I'm DONE! I'm just sayin'.

Here we go. (Didn't we just do this?)

Jesse Langseth - "Tell Me Something Good" I like her voice but I don't think this was a great performance.

Matt Giraud - "Who's Lovin' You" Not loving the scarf, but that's neither here nor there, I guess. Interesting, fits his style. Good choice for him. He sang, what? 3 lines of the song? That's weird. How long are they giving them to sing, like 25 seconds?

Megan Joy Corkrey - "Black Horse and The Cherry Tree" Oh it's the shimmy, twisty dance again. STOP IT! Remembering Katherine McPhee singing this. It was ok for me. I like her so I'm torn.

Von Smith - "Sorry Seems to be the Hardest Word" Starting out weak. What is up with his hair? I didn't really like it.

(Oh for goodness sake, spit it out already, Paula.)

Jasmine Murray - "Reflection" I love her so I'm pulling for her. Good song choice. Way better than her last time. You go girl!

Ricky Braddy - "Superstition" I'm so glad he is getting a second chance. He got cheated the first time since no one had even LAID EYES ON HIM before the first Top 36 show. He rocked it! He's representin' the Tar Heel state well!

Tatiana Del Toro - "Saving All My Love For You" All I'm sayin' is don't let her talk. And right off the bat, she talks. And, WHITNEY! She's wearing Paula's bracelet. Girl can sing, so maybe if there's a clause that she can't talk or cry or thank anybody, it would be ok. Oh, SHUT UP ALREADY. That's all.

Anoop Desai - "My Perogative" Didn't he sing this already? I don't care. I love the 'Noop Dawg. (But seriously what was up with the tie in the clip? Is that a Carolina frat boy thing?)

Uh oh, Simon's comment about putting personality through makes me nervous!

I pick Jasmine, Ricky, and Anoop.

We'll see what the judges say. I'm going to iron during the commercials. Back in a flash.

Well, 2 out of 3 ain't bad. And yay for Top 13!

Finally, The Office is new! Later!

American Idol - Top 36 - Week 3

2009-03-03T22:03:00.001-05:00

Top 36, round 3 for this odd little season on AI. Also known as the Season Of The Poor Song Choice. Finger crossed!

Von Smith - "You're All I Need To Get By" He was warned about screaming at people in Hollywood. I feel a little screamed at already. Maybe next time he can be a little more expressive. I'm with Simon on the outfit. Hate it.

Taylor Vaifanua - "If I've Got You" Not crazy about the beginning but half way through it got way better. She's good. I liked it but it might be forgettable. What in the sam hill is up with Paula's necklace? On the up side Ryan's stylist seems to be back from vacation.

Alex Wagner-Trugman - "I Guess That's Why They Call It the Blues" He's a funny kid. Losing points for the dancing. And the growling. He's a little young to be singing about stuff going on under the covers, don't you think? Awkward. He's a cutie, but I'm not crazy about that performance. Now I kind of feel like I've kicked a puppy.

Arianna Afsar - "The Winner Takes It All" Love me some ABBA. This one is probably too old for her though. The judges are going to hate it unless she knocks it out of the park. Well, I think the last half was better than the first, but she struggled. She's just so cute. Say it with me. AS A BUTTON. Oh bless her.

Ju'not Joyner - "Hey There, Dehlila" Not exactly starting out as a fun and lively guy. I'm bored. I did not like that. I have never heard that song and I don't like it at all. And BAM, the judges love it. This is why Kara replaced me this year. Why do people even read this?

Kristen McNamara - "Give Me One Reason" Ok, I didn't know it was possible to have a "boo-boo" at the hair stylist and end up with purple hair. Let's all hope that isn't a common problem. Finally an upbeat song. Girlfriend can SING.

Nathaniel "Drama Queen" Marshall - "I Would Do Anything For Love" Somebody go snatch that headband off his head. I remember his back story from Hollywood week. Lives with his grandma, parents aren't around. I feel sorry for the guy. He's definitely searching for something. Oh somebody share Jesus with him. That was ok. He might make it through just on personality.

Felicia Barton - "No One" I liked it a lot. She kind of sounds like Nelly Furtado. Glad she got to come back. Bravo.

Scott MacIntyre - "Mandolin Rain" It's ok. A couple of rough spots. I really like him. He does better with the piano so I hope he gets through. High five, dude!

Kendall Beard - "This One's For the Girls" I bet she can belt out some Martina. Not that I necessarily remember her belting out anything. Good song choice. Maybe I spoke too soon. It was ok. Not great. She struggled to hit some notes. But great dress.

Jorge Nunez - "Don't Let the Sun Go Down on Me" He did way better than I expected him too. I really liked it! REEEallly, reeeeally good, dawg. I love that he said when he gets so excited he can't think in English. I know how he feels.

Lil Rounds - "Be Without You" Love Lil! And seriously, what a name. Lil Rounds. First, she looks beautiful. Best performance of the night for me. She's going FAR. Far, I tell you.

My picks are Lil, Scott, and either Jorge or Kristen. I can't pick 3. And you can't make me.